Do you read the rants by men on this site (among others) who routinely shriek that any girl older than 18 is a dried-up hag? Because these poor girls do, too, and not enough of them have a support network to say “yeah, no.”
It’s not “giving you the world” to plan a date. That’s bare minimum to date someone. And asking for to make sure it’s known he only tolerates time with your family instead of actually trying to be part of it is a pretty big red flag. He’s not doing you a favour by interacting with your family. Again, that’s a bare minimum requirement of a partner.
It’s manipulative to hear you giving him 2 very small things to improve in the relationship, then for him to make you feel bad for even bringing it up. Very immature behaviour all around from this guy
Your math doesn't add up. You started dating when he finished High school, hows that work?
Don't stay with someone who treats you like this in a crisis…eventually it won't take a crisis to bring this side out.
Also don't flush anything but toilet paper. Tampons very well can clog up pipes.
Now I'm wondering if you googled her full name..what would you find?
I don't like this one bit op.
Do you read the rants by men on this site (among others) who routinely shriek that any girl older than 18 is a dried-up hag? Because these poor girls do, too, and not enough of them have a support network to say “yeah, no.”
If you live in the USA. Just divorce him and put you all your energy into creating a sustainable life.
In 1-2 years depending on where you online get a job and then buy you a 4plex for extra income.
You have to add up any pluses that you have going for you right now and work those pluses.
That’s dumb. Something like this would be difficult to ignore.
It’s not “giving you the world” to plan a date. That’s bare minimum to date someone. And asking for to make sure it’s known he only tolerates time with your family instead of actually trying to be part of it is a pretty big red flag. He’s not doing you a favour by interacting with your family. Again, that’s a bare minimum requirement of a partner.
It’s manipulative to hear you giving him 2 very small things to improve in the relationship, then for him to make you feel bad for even bringing it up. Very immature behaviour all around from this guy