I hope your friends never fuck up anything of yours because they certainly won't be paying for it. Your friends are shitty people and I recommend you keep an eye on that because this is a sign that their morals are selfish and inconsiderate which rarely makes for a good friend.
Hon, you cannot save or cure her and she's not willing to take meds. There is nothing in the world worse than guilt, but you aren't responsible and you can't fix it. Let go with love, all the way. And get a little counselling for yourself. This is a nude thing. xo from a granny
Tell me you’re not married without saying your not married. I invite her because I want her to see my life outside of our marriage not because I want to keep tabs on her. I travel enough for work where I can’t take her that I want to include her as much as I can when possible.
Thank you, those are good points. I think I’ve kept making excuses for some of these things, but what you said made me think a lot of it can be chalked up to immaturity/childishness
I don't blame you. I'd be upset if my partner did that too.
But I guess what it boils down to is: you can't control her. She can do what she wants to do. You've told her how you feel, and she didn't respect your feelings. Where does that leave you? Does she often disregard your feelings or is this something out of character for her?
You can only control yourself. So you have to ask yourself if this is something you can accept in your partner. If you think you can work through this, then go for it. If you don't think it's worth it or you can't move past it or it's a trend and not just a one-off thing…well, you'll have to decide what to do with that.
But fwiw, from what you've said here it sounds like you had valid concerns and she just didn't take your feelings seriously, and I would be upset too.
Not you being a fifty something year old dumpee, married multiple times and saying “dodged bullet”? ??
I hope your friends never fuck up anything of yours because they certainly won't be paying for it. Your friends are shitty people and I recommend you keep an eye on that because this is a sign that their morals are selfish and inconsiderate which rarely makes for a good friend.
The number of partners you have Michel expertise
What does this mean?
It scares me how little US healthcare does before giving women BC.
They tested me down to the bone before I got mine, not a single problem, tons of advantages.
She should change pills, get a better obgyn or both
Hon, you cannot save or cure her and she's not willing to take meds. There is nothing in the world worse than guilt, but you aren't responsible and you can't fix it. Let go with love, all the way. And get a little counselling for yourself. This is a nude thing. xo from a granny
Tell me you’re not married without saying your not married. I invite her because I want her to see my life outside of our marriage not because I want to keep tabs on her. I travel enough for work where I can’t take her that I want to include her as much as I can when possible.
He sounds crazy. Tell him you're not marrying a crazy person who disappears when you need him
Thank you, those are good points. I think I’ve kept making excuses for some of these things, but what you said made me think a lot of it can be chalked up to immaturity/childishness
I don't blame you. I'd be upset if my partner did that too.
But I guess what it boils down to is: you can't control her. She can do what she wants to do. You've told her how you feel, and she didn't respect your feelings. Where does that leave you? Does she often disregard your feelings or is this something out of character for her?
You can only control yourself. So you have to ask yourself if this is something you can accept in your partner. If you think you can work through this, then go for it. If you don't think it's worth it or you can't move past it or it's a trend and not just a one-off thing…well, you'll have to decide what to do with that.
But fwiw, from what you've said here it sounds like you had valid concerns and she just didn't take your feelings seriously, and I would be upset too.
Maybe talk to your kids and see what they want first before making any big decisions.