The parh you were on before Gary was your second marriage failing before age 50, and you apparently had no problem with helping him cheat on his wife before your divorce was finalized.
I don’t think your path was going “toward a truly healthy life” before Gary either.
It sounds like you need to be single and stop making so many terrible decisions.
I will need someone to be with me around the clock for 2-3 weeks, unable to sit or bathe on my own let alone care for pets and the house. No family that I trust to do that or are willing to take the time, I live alone, and no friends who can get that much time off on such short notice because it was supposed to be him and he put in the leave request a long time ago.
Son rule number 1 don’t shit where you eat first off props too her man for even letting y’all hang out and shit and be in the same room cause that’s crazy besides the point my boy I hope you know karma comes around don’t mess with peoples relationship’s cause when it happens too you its gonna sting yes you care about her but be real bro they’ve been together for 7 years why would u try too break them up now or tell her your feelings at this point what’s best is you stay away from her and focus on yourself they’re are many women in this world you don’t need too be messing with one in a relationship get away now before it gets messier then it is
You might repeat it, if you do not change your drinking ways. If you love your gf, do you not think she deserves to know, about it, no matter how she may react?
His self esteem is already on the rocks because his gf prefers him to change.
Did op even consider his bf's mental health? If there's a change in his behavior shouldn't she be concerned for mental health not just his weight too?
I got stress just reading your post?! OMG! I can’t even breathe. Man, got out because it get worse. Good luck
The parh you were on before Gary was your second marriage failing before age 50, and you apparently had no problem with helping him cheat on his wife before your divorce was finalized.
I don’t think your path was going “toward a truly healthy life” before Gary either.
It sounds like you need to be single and stop making so many terrible decisions.
I will need someone to be with me around the clock for 2-3 weeks, unable to sit or bathe on my own let alone care for pets and the house. No family that I trust to do that or are willing to take the time, I live alone, and no friends who can get that much time off on such short notice because it was supposed to be him and he put in the leave request a long time ago.
Son rule number 1 don’t shit where you eat first off props too her man for even letting y’all hang out and shit and be in the same room cause that’s crazy besides the point my boy I hope you know karma comes around don’t mess with peoples relationship’s cause when it happens too you its gonna sting yes you care about her but be real bro they’ve been together for 7 years why would u try too break them up now or tell her your feelings at this point what’s best is you stay away from her and focus on yourself they’re are many women in this world you don’t need too be messing with one in a relationship get away now before it gets messier then it is
You might repeat it, if you do not change your drinking ways. If you love your gf, do you not think she deserves to know, about it, no matter how she may react?
She gave you the gift that keeps on giving.