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Has the therapist given you any ideas about how to work this out with your dad? It sounds to me that he's concerned that you might be too attached to your electronics and missing out on other opportunities. There are so many teens who spend literally all their time on their computers and phones. And, guess what, there are full-grown adults who do the same thing. Maybe your dad just doesn't want you to turn out like that, especially since you have shown that you have such tremendous potential.
If there is any kind of physical or group activity that you think you might enjoy, give it a try. Whether it's running a couple miles a day on your own, joining a musical group, or doing volunteer work for the less fortunate, there are all kinds of ways you can get out of your room for a while. Do it for yourself, not for anyone else. And maybe your dad will lighten up in the process!
yeah dude. at least you've got to experience and make the choice for yourself. I am not resentful about it or anything, but I'm sad that it's the norm in the u.s. it seems so unnecessary and so fundamentally personal that it shouldn't be anyone else's decision. I hope your spouse was just trying to tease you and it wasn't ill-intentioned. you have some stuff to talk about, but i hope you can work past it.
A relationship is not supposed to make you feel bad. And if it does, you don’t have to stay in it. You can leave. Dating is just the process of figuring out if two people are compatible — it is not a one and done situation. You do not have to stick around and date this man who belittles you and makes you uncomfortable because at some point in time you agreed to be his girlfriend. It’s ok to say no thank you, I’m no longer interested in spending time with you, and remember that you don’t need him to agree to end the relationship for you to decide that you’re done.
She has a really good therapist, and I'm sure that in this weeks session there was a ton to talk about. I think I should start seeing one for this, as its still weighing heavily on me and affecting academic performance. I think you are right about not being dateable. She was in the abusive relationship for 2.5 years, and started dating me 3 months after it ended. If I had known it was that soon I dont thing I would have started it with her.
In regards to breaking up with someone who isn’t a bad person, I’ve been there, as many else have I’m sure. The problem though isn’t them being a good or bad person, it’s them being the wrong person.
I left my last relationship after a lot of effort put in trying to make it work. And man was it many years of work. I eventually realized after many things and instances and years that we were trying to force something to work and we just weren’t what each other needed. No matter how many talks we had, we couldn’t become what the other needed. It’s okay to come to that conclusion. You both have needs and ways in which you want to be loved and treated. You’ve vocalized yours to him – the main one being open and trustworthy. Clearly for whatever reason, he’s not able to provide that for you. Don’t sit around and wait for him to change or do better. It sounds like him hiding things and not being forthright have been an on going problem and adding long distance to that will only make it worse and you more anxious.
You’re already doubting things and wanting to break it off – so that’s your answer. I know it’s tough and but you need to rip the bandaid off and do it.
Has the therapist given you any ideas about how to work this out with your dad? It sounds to me that he's concerned that you might be too attached to your electronics and missing out on other opportunities. There are so many teens who spend literally all their time on their computers and phones. And, guess what, there are full-grown adults who do the same thing. Maybe your dad just doesn't want you to turn out like that, especially since you have shown that you have such tremendous potential.
If there is any kind of physical or group activity that you think you might enjoy, give it a try. Whether it's running a couple miles a day on your own, joining a musical group, or doing volunteer work for the less fortunate, there are all kinds of ways you can get out of your room for a while. Do it for yourself, not for anyone else. And maybe your dad will lighten up in the process!
yeah dude. at least you've got to experience and make the choice for yourself. I am not resentful about it or anything, but I'm sad that it's the norm in the u.s. it seems so unnecessary and so fundamentally personal that it shouldn't be anyone else's decision. I hope your spouse was just trying to tease you and it wasn't ill-intentioned. you have some stuff to talk about, but i hope you can work past it.
We do couples therapy once a month. Do you think mentioning it there first is a good idea? I want her to feel as safe as possible
A relationship is not supposed to make you feel bad. And if it does, you don’t have to stay in it. You can leave. Dating is just the process of figuring out if two people are compatible — it is not a one and done situation. You do not have to stick around and date this man who belittles you and makes you uncomfortable because at some point in time you agreed to be his girlfriend. It’s ok to say no thank you, I’m no longer interested in spending time with you, and remember that you don’t need him to agree to end the relationship for you to decide that you’re done.
She has a really good therapist, and I'm sure that in this weeks session there was a ton to talk about. I think I should start seeing one for this, as its still weighing heavily on me and affecting academic performance. I think you are right about not being dateable. She was in the abusive relationship for 2.5 years, and started dating me 3 months after it ended. If I had known it was that soon I dont thing I would have started it with her.
In regards to breaking up with someone who isn’t a bad person, I’ve been there, as many else have I’m sure. The problem though isn’t them being a good or bad person, it’s them being the wrong person.
I left my last relationship after a lot of effort put in trying to make it work. And man was it many years of work. I eventually realized after many things and instances and years that we were trying to force something to work and we just weren’t what each other needed. No matter how many talks we had, we couldn’t become what the other needed. It’s okay to come to that conclusion. You both have needs and ways in which you want to be loved and treated. You’ve vocalized yours to him – the main one being open and trustworthy. Clearly for whatever reason, he’s not able to provide that for you. Don’t sit around and wait for him to change or do better. It sounds like him hiding things and not being forthright have been an on going problem and adding long distance to that will only make it worse and you more anxious.
You’re already doubting things and wanting to break it off – so that’s your answer. I know it’s tough and but you need to rip the bandaid off and do it.
I'd send it back to them.
Unopened, and labeled as “Junk Mail.”