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You are both in your early twenties, and have been together from high school. Its normal for him to want to have more experiences and sexual partners, so he's actually asking for permission to cheat.
Unfortunately, and sorry to say this, but your relationship just got an expiration date. His thoughts will not magically change, and one way or another he will eventually have sex with other people. Whether he cheats or ends it first is a whole other deal.
As for actual advice? You are too young to be stuck with someone who is eventually going to cheat and/or break up with you. It will hurt like hell, take you out of your comfort zone but eventually i think both of you need to live your twenties a bit more, party and meet new people now. If you dont do it now, you'll end up wanting to do it later in life as it will be something you'll feel you missed.
Me and my girl look at each other, we say how lucky we are. Some people don't have OR get to enjoy pretty bodies. Some people are more fortunate that way. If everybody threw their problems into the center of the room where everybody else could see them everybody would gladly take back their own problems. I think we are uniquely disposed to handle our own problems and nobody else's even though we're better at giving advice to others than ourselves.
I don’t know… I definitely feel weird about it. This is also a larger issue about him thinking about other people (like literally everyone including my friends) and he masturbated to one of my friends. It just seems hurtful :/ and I’m not sure what is ok anymore
Heck I've been with my husband for 8 years and we've only recently figured out how to get me to orgasm. I couldn't even get myself off alone so it's not like I could tell him what to do, or finish myself during sex.
For us it took time, toys, experimentation, communication, and NO pressure to orgasm. For me specifically we discovered I need a specific type of toy (clit suction) plus penetration of some kind. I also usually need to kiss or be talked to right when I'm at the edge or it won't happen. Not sure why my body needs something so specific but that's just how it is.
Now, that being said, our sex life was great in other ways even before we figured it out. We have a great relationship. I'm not sure if you can save this one or not since she's already on the way out…and if she hopes to be able to cum just from PIV it may never happen regardless of who she is with. A lot of women can't.
Best of luck to you both. Bodies are weird sometimes. Hers isn't broken and you haven't failed.
What does that have to do with me though? I'm not her boss. Nor could I get her fired really.
It doesn’t sound like there’s anything you can do here. She can choose to give you grace or she can continue being entitled, but those choices are hers.
If I were you, I’d probably stop buying gifts and chasing her. The ball is in her court now.
The missing piece its the wife willing to take care of the situation, if she was interested she would have done it already, shes not a kid with her first dog, shes an adult
Well kind of, OP was open to him also sleeping with others but it doesn't seem like he offers the same attitude towards her.
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So who pays all of the bills? You?
Why isn't your problem that he doesn't work and doesn't do anything other than sleep + weed? Your problem is only that he sleeps, but it should be that he is lazy, not productive, and that you are taking care of a grown man who is almost 40.
I think you need to make reassessments, include why you are ONLY upset with his sleeping?
I will look into this, thank you!
I don't think you believe you need to know the specifics to understand her drinking or her triggers. She was drinking like that to cope with that and you think now, a month from her last drink, having just started therapy, she's going to be comfortable vocalizing this out loud to you? You really need to leave it alone. It's common with very traumatized people to not learn specific details until you've been close for years. You don't even know her like that.
I think this is a YOU problem, not a HIM problem.
I'm a widow. I can tell you that there is definitely such a thing as having a physical “type” you find attractive. When I finally started dating, it became very clear to me that I have specific preferences in looks. Most people do. I think you are assigning your similarity to his deceased wife way more importance than it deserves.
You're also turning his “not wanting pictures up” into a big deal it doesn't need to be. Some widows/widowers just don't want photos of their dead spouse around. It's a personal choice. I'm not even remarried, but I have no photos of my deceased spouse around my house.
As far as his family, after two years, they likely just didn't make any association. People forget. So the photos of his wife may seem obviously similar to you, at first look, but his family…not so much. And likely not so much to him, either, unless he's sitting up in the attic all the time, staring at the photos.
In short, I think you are making this out to be WAY more than it is.
She is hunting for drama. Whatever else you do don't take the bait
No, no they are not. All guys don’t want track their girlfriends, control their clothing, check their photos and texts, & get jealous of friend relationships.
Don’t normalize this controlling behavior.
Instead of taking responsibility you are judging and blaming. This is on YOU. Maybe both of you at best. But absolutely without a doubt, you caused this.
Yeah, it will be effective for your sister to get away from a bully. I hope she finds peace.
Who said that's all she thinks of?
Either way he shouldn't have gone digging.
Grandma ain’t momma. You want a happy life, better re-evaluate how you make a happy wife.
RESPECT your wife first, not dead or alive relatives.
“Would I be an idiot?”
Yes. Next question
It’s a serious issue. I used to masturbate all the time at an old job because the job was so boring. He should be intimate with you and willing to work on that. If he’s just relying on porn, then he’s not worth it.
They are going to make SURE someone gets shot.
Girl, please do not marry this man. This is grounds for an immediate break up. Sort your things and be gone before he gets back. This man is in his 30s – he will not change. If he’s doing this shit during probably one of the worst moments of your life he will NEVER be there for you and will NEVER be a supportive partner. Leave him please
What I don't get here is: has this ever been discussed before? You say it's every man's fantasy and that it seems interesting, but was there ever a point where you both sat down and said “Hey, should we consider trying out a threesome?” or this was your wife offering it as a present out of nowhere? In general, the situation would be a big nope for me, with the fact that she basically has already decided who the third person will be and also the fact that it's a friend of hers.
Usually posts like this make me angry but this one just made me sad. You’re in love with someone who doesn’t respect you. Oh he doesn’t work because he takes care of the kids…that’s lovely but the reason why you’re he’s now at home and your finances are ruined stems from the fact that he fucked someone and left you while you were late in your pregnancy. And he ONLY came back because the other woman was no longer an option.
He didn’t come back because he loved you. He came back because he knew YOU loved HIM, and that you would obviously take him back.
If she is doing this to everyone, I'd say it's really likely she is going through a difficult time, may even have developed a mental illness. Try talking to her and getting her to open up, she likely needs support right now.
I'm confused, did your wife know they were teasing you or not?
But women only have sex for men's viewing pleasure, don't ya know?
/S in case it's not obvious
That’s what it seems like!
He’ll give pretty short answers, but he does ask questions in return (“what do you like to read?” “Nonfiction. What about you?”). He’s met a few other of my friends and they’ve got to talking more openly after a little while, just by the way conversation flows.
I do think there’s an extroverted/introverted mismatch there, but they way she approached him the last time (vaguely hostile, even in a larger group setting) makes me worry about their interactions, although I do hope that a group may help smooth it over.
I always wanted hope of physically defending myself.
Good for her. You obviously have issues to solve before you date again.