I have done it too, and just really could go without. But my husband enjoys it, so we try different things to see if I will enjoy it more, and to make it less painful.
That's why I asked. Maybe you can try different things to make it enjoyable for both. And also if he likes pegging or thinks he does then try it. See how it goes.
If you really don't like it, that is fine , instead of doing anal , suggest you do 69 instead, and peg him while he devours you.
Just be open minded and try to come up with something you both like, or like someone else said, let him watch porn and explore with toys on his own, to let him experiment.
And because this is reddit let me clarify in no certain terms am I saying open your marriage and allow him to experiment with other people. Or to have threesomes.
i dont think he doesnt love or respect me i think its my fault for asking for too much. Asking for too much fun times asking for too many hugs and kisses. He trys as much as he can do i just dont know how to fix myself.
1.) You don’t fully trust your Wife. Own up to that and it may help you to resolve this. Maybe there are reasons.
2.) Spouses aren’t invited to the party or the hotel. That’s just weird and not a good company policy, nor is it creating a strong culture.
I manage high up in a huge company, I’ve managed in many others and go to parties at lots of vendor and customer events.
Probably 1-2x a month I am at an event.
A hotel offer is a common thing if there will be open bar and the distance to home is high. It’s probably cheaper than the surge Uber or Lyft will give you once the requests start flying in.
For sure, it’s better for building morale and showing employee appreciation.
All that said…. Not once, have I ran into a company that doesn’t invite spouses to the party, forget that it isn’t encouraged to have your spouse stay in the hotel (even if you pay any difference).
That is honestly a fishy aspect of this and could warrant you having alarm bells going off.
All that said though, this comes back to the fact that you don’t fully trust her.
Oh gosh he just won’t stop. I need to sleep
I don't think you can even sue if the surgery fails unless it's so bad it qualifies as malpractice
Can I just ask why you don't enjoy anal?
I have done it too, and just really could go without. But my husband enjoys it, so we try different things to see if I will enjoy it more, and to make it less painful.
That's why I asked. Maybe you can try different things to make it enjoyable for both. And also if he likes pegging or thinks he does then try it. See how it goes.
If you really don't like it, that is fine , instead of doing anal , suggest you do 69 instead, and peg him while he devours you.
Just be open minded and try to come up with something you both like, or like someone else said, let him watch porn and explore with toys on his own, to let him experiment.
And because this is reddit let me clarify in no certain terms am I saying open your marriage and allow him to experiment with other people. Or to have threesomes.
He's covering for your wife. They are both betraying you. So sorry OP.
Good luck, kid.
i dont think he doesnt love or respect me i think its my fault for asking for too much. Asking for too much fun times asking for too many hugs and kisses. He trys as much as he can do i just dont know how to fix myself.
My dad just stays in his room. He really doesn t want to come at us, but he has no choice. I asked her each time before coming to us.
There’s two problems here.
1.) You don’t fully trust your Wife. Own up to that and it may help you to resolve this. Maybe there are reasons.
2.) Spouses aren’t invited to the party or the hotel. That’s just weird and not a good company policy, nor is it creating a strong culture.
I manage high up in a huge company, I’ve managed in many others and go to parties at lots of vendor and customer events.
Probably 1-2x a month I am at an event.
A hotel offer is a common thing if there will be open bar and the distance to home is high. It’s probably cheaper than the surge Uber or Lyft will give you once the requests start flying in.
For sure, it’s better for building morale and showing employee appreciation.
All that said…. Not once, have I ran into a company that doesn’t invite spouses to the party, forget that it isn’t encouraged to have your spouse stay in the hotel (even if you pay any difference).
That is honestly a fishy aspect of this and could warrant you having alarm bells going off.
All that said though, this comes back to the fact that you don’t fully trust her.