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Date: November 3, 2022
Between 18 and 27 I wasn’t really sure I wanted kids. I was more on the not wanting them side than actually wanting them. I’m 28 now and I got pregnant and had the baby. I’m not sure if it’s just the shitty newborn phase, ppd, or regret, but I’m struggling something fierce. Part of me wants my old life back, but part of me is happy I get to experience the unconditional love that comes with a child. Think carefully before you make any decisions. Your life will change a lot with a child and it’s extremely difficult.
You don't “have to do it”. Tell her if you feel comfortable or don't, this is just a curiosity like you said, you're not even sure you're bi. If you did then maybe you should tell, but until then you shouldn't feel pressured to tell her
Do her a favor and break up with her if you’re already that paranoid and untrusting—this will not end well.
OP I also have an IMPOSSIBLE to please sister and she’s also NEVER wrong. The best thing I’ve ever done for my mental health is to take a step back from her. You are not the bad guy here, she’s just entitled to your time and effort.
Personally, I think you need to tell her, but I've heard WAY too many stories about the guy lying and it bites the person who tells in the ass. If it's not illegal where you live I would tell him that you need to talk to him and be like “I don't want things to be awkward between us, so we need to settle this” and then let himself dig a hole and then show your best friend. Otherwise, she may alienate you and end up with the POS who is gonna definitely break her heart later.
I've actually been thinking about this, and I want to give you this example, because even if you do not stay in this relationship, you may find it pertinent in the future. Apologies that I'm using something as contentious as grades, it's just easy to demonstrate what I mean, I don't have kids and I don't think one way or another about the grading system.
So imagine you have a child, and you tell the child that all you ask from them is to do their best. For a long time, the child gets straight A's. Around middle school, he starts playing a lot of video games, skipping assignments, staying up too late, not seeing his real life friends, and his grades start to slip down to C's. You reassure him that he just needs to do his best and you'll be happy. Despite this, he still continues the problem behavior and still gets C's. You start getting angry: you know his best is straight A's, and you know that if he knocked off the video games, he'd be able to achieve that again. So you start getting on his ass about his video games, sleep schedule, and grades out of frustration.
Meanwhile, from his point of view, he is doing his best. His best is just different now, because he is processing a lot. It feels like the unconditional acceptance was a lie. If you really wanted him to do his best, he thinks, you would not point out the symptoms — the sleep issues, the avoiding homework, the lack of studying, the isolation. The symptoms would worry you and his inability to achieve would worry you. You would approach the symptoms with compassion to get to the root cause, and say, hey, so I need you to meet me halfway and do your best to address that even if it means therapy or family counseling. Don't worry about the other stuff right now. This part is going to be tough.
Of course, you don't owe this to a romantic partner like you would to a child. But if this is patterned for you and you continue to end up with people who are caught in a cycle, approaching support from this angle may prevent escalation and help you grow together.
She doesn't get to set the narrative, you do. She isn't remorseful or doing anything that you need to recover from her betrayal. Until she does that I would just move on to someone who respects you and wants to be in your life.
Your bf is a POS. Telling his daughter that the dog is more important than she is is abusive. Threatening to kick your dog and yelling at him are abusive. Your dog is responding reasonably to the situation of a human being angry. Your bf is the one with problematic behavior. He had a temper tantrum over a dog that was doing normal dog things. How ridiculous. You chose correctly. Tell his friends to pound sand.
I hope things get better for you soon.
I think you are misunderstanding. I think OP means that if that happened, not a chance in hell would he side with the father or even be on the fence about that. He’d be willing to go scorched earth.
We don’t know what happened. That’s kind of the point. It’s all well and good to listen to someone tell you what they need, but you also can’t expect someone to completely cut off a parent without any information at all.