This is not your fault. Your boyfriend is abusive, he knows you're a kind person and that you care about him and he's using that against you to manipulate you. Call an ambulance to his house, text him that you're over, and block him on everything.
I'm a physician so I see this from the other side all the time. The way he is behaving is absolutely not normal. People die from burst appendices and it's frankly bizarre that he's being so blase about it. In healthy relationships, partners are in touch with and worried about their partners' life threatening conditions, not dismissive and minimizing. This is very much not cool on his part.
This sounds like a beginning of a psychological thriller and it's giving me anxiety
This is not your fault. Your boyfriend is abusive, he knows you're a kind person and that you care about him and he's using that against you to manipulate you. Call an ambulance to his house, text him that you're over, and block him on everything.
I'm a physician so I see this from the other side all the time. The way he is behaving is absolutely not normal. People die from burst appendices and it's frankly bizarre that he's being so blase about it. In healthy relationships, partners are in touch with and worried about their partners' life threatening conditions, not dismissive and minimizing. This is very much not cool on his part.
You had a drunken one night stand. Why is this person a big chunk of your life?
Also, you are REALLY over sharing with your gf. That needs to stop.
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You need to discuss this with a therapist