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Well, if you admit that the problem here is you, then you know what needs to be done. I'd still communicate this to your boyfriend so he doesn't just think that you've grown cold to him and that there's something legitimately going on with you.
I think its fine to have these feelings, and just accept that it will make you feel weird. That is emotion, and you are allowed. Next is logic, which again won't make the feelings go away but is where your decisions should start. If you guys are comfortable with open communication already it could help to talk about what you are feeling, but just make it clear its your own issues you are working on, not an accusation. A reasonable person will respect that, and might even offer some reassurance.
It's entirely possible for men and women to just be friends, and its even healthy for a relationship to have some space apart sometimes.
See if you can talk to your girlfriend and angle it in the way that he must have other victims, and reporting this guy is not just for her, but for any other poor girls he might do this to.
I know it sucks for him, but it sucks for them both.
If he just gave her the time and space she needed she might be over the shock and more prepared to help him deal with it. He said it's only been 2 days.
I don't remember him mentioning how long they've been together either, that would play a major part in all of this.
Exactly. I was raised in an upper class european household, and the ones being overly concerned with etiquette etc were people trying to fit in or trying to appear rich.
If you're not and unable to date – don't try to convince yourself that you're involved in something special because he does or says this, that, or whatever. You're not exclusive. He can do what he wants. If the arrangement bothers you, stop participating. If his dating stuff bothers you, tell him in words. 'I know we're just having fun here, but I'd appreciate it if you don't swipe on tinder in my home.' Then let the chips fall where they may.
You can say you want nothing to do with borrowing from his brother. If he chooses to borrow from family, he is paying it back on his own. Only feeling comfortable borrowing from a bank is a fair boundary.
Well, if you admit that the problem here is you, then you know what needs to be done. I'd still communicate this to your boyfriend so he doesn't just think that you've grown cold to him and that there's something legitimately going on with you.
Best of luck to you.
I think its fine to have these feelings, and just accept that it will make you feel weird. That is emotion, and you are allowed. Next is logic, which again won't make the feelings go away but is where your decisions should start. If you guys are comfortable with open communication already it could help to talk about what you are feeling, but just make it clear its your own issues you are working on, not an accusation. A reasonable person will respect that, and might even offer some reassurance.
It's entirely possible for men and women to just be friends, and its even healthy for a relationship to have some space apart sometimes.
See if you can talk to your girlfriend and angle it in the way that he must have other victims, and reporting this guy is not just for her, but for any other poor girls he might do this to.
I know it sucks for him, but it sucks for them both.
If he just gave her the time and space she needed she might be over the shock and more prepared to help him deal with it. He said it's only been 2 days.
I don't remember him mentioning how long they've been together either, that would play a major part in all of this.
Exactly. I was raised in an upper class european household, and the ones being overly concerned with etiquette etc were people trying to fit in or trying to appear rich.
If you're not and unable to date – don't try to convince yourself that you're involved in something special because he does or says this, that, or whatever. You're not exclusive. He can do what he wants. If the arrangement bothers you, stop participating. If his dating stuff bothers you, tell him in words. 'I know we're just having fun here, but I'd appreciate it if you don't swipe on tinder in my home.' Then let the chips fall where they may.
He was also 18, she was 16. Just an overall cowardly creep.
I wonder if he gets in a ‘bad moodI’ if you don’t give him head? Is he actually saying ‘If you don’t give me head I will be mean to you’?
Is he vile if you say no?
move to one of the many empty condos or outlying areas
You can say you want nothing to do with borrowing from his brother. If he chooses to borrow from family, he is paying it back on his own. Only feeling comfortable borrowing from a bank is a fair boundary.
I say just buy a cheaper house.
Do you love her? If yes, talk to her. Go to doctor and have him check your testosterone levels and get therapy.