I'm glad! Is he doing to therapy as well? It might be good to have him do exercises around his concerns. For example, what's the worst that could happen if you drank? Why is it immortal to drink, and then examine those thoughts further.
Sorry Buddy, when you’re with someone that lies a lot, like it sounds like she does, you don’t love her, you love the person she pretends to be. Maybe who she is and who she pretends to be are very similar, but you’ll never know. Best to end things now before you get more attached. It’ll be better for you as she’s not changing, and it’ll be better for her. You working on communication with her only enabled her, there was no really consequences for her lying. If she loses you, maybe that will be enough for her to wake up and get therapy, as compulsive lying rarely changes with out effort and therapy, often years of it.
If she wears it, talk to your photographer about changing the color on official pictures. If she asks about it or complain about it, either tell her that you didn't want her to look impolite in the pictures since she wore white as a guest in a wedding, or blame your photographer (with their permission, of course).
If you have concerns, voice them. Bit that's all.you can do. It is your friend's relationship after all.
I'm glad! Is he doing to therapy as well? It might be good to have him do exercises around his concerns. For example, what's the worst that could happen if you drank? Why is it immortal to drink, and then examine those thoughts further.
I guess the “open” marriage was really supposed to just be open for her, and not for you.
Yes, you're probably just a meal ticket for her until she finds someone else to support her.
Call a lawyer, free yourself of this.
I love her more than I could imagine
Sorry Buddy, when you’re with someone that lies a lot, like it sounds like she does, you don’t love her, you love the person she pretends to be. Maybe who she is and who she pretends to be are very similar, but you’ll never know. Best to end things now before you get more attached. It’ll be better for you as she’s not changing, and it’ll be better for her. You working on communication with her only enabled her, there was no really consequences for her lying. If she loses you, maybe that will be enough for her to wake up and get therapy, as compulsive lying rarely changes with out effort and therapy, often years of it.
If she wears it, talk to your photographer about changing the color on official pictures. If she asks about it or complain about it, either tell her that you didn't want her to look impolite in the pictures since she wore white as a guest in a wedding, or blame your photographer (with their permission, of course).