I think society needs some scientific research into the phenomenon of how these dudes, who don't even wipe their asses, keep getting girlfriends. And then the girl is committed enough to ask questions like – how do I approach it gently? Girlll you approach it by dumping his dirty ass, you're not his mom.
Unless CNC is a thing for you, and you'd agreed to it in that scenario, he raped you. And he shouldn't just feel “a bit bad” he should be arrested and charged.
This has nothing to do with politics and everything to do with grooming.
I think society needs some scientific research into the phenomenon of how these dudes, who don't even wipe their asses, keep getting girlfriends. And then the girl is committed enough to ask questions like – how do I approach it gently? Girlll you approach it by dumping his dirty ass, you're not his mom.
Eww.
Unless CNC is a thing for you, and you'd agreed to it in that scenario, he raped you. And he shouldn't just feel “a bit bad” he should be arrested and charged.
I know just as many who inherit the squalorful habits, lol. Altho yes people adapt in a rainbow of ways.