It's not just used for people, I've seen it used when someone's pet dies. There's no reason you can't use it when an unborn child dies as well.
All it implies is that op lost someone important to him, and he did. He had a child on the way, and now he does not. It's fine for him to be sad about that.
So, what do you do with a f.buddy you no longer want to be an f.buddy with?
You let them know by text, mail or a phonecall that you're done, then block them on everything and go online your best life. Call the cops if they come snooping around your new place. Get it on file so if you need a restraining order there's a paper trail.
Also might want to invest in something like a Nest camera for the door(s). Not specifically for the ex, but for some added security in general.
Look, your girlfriend is a business owner AND she's pursuing a PhD, right? She must be super smart. This personal success has clearly come about because she's got brains and she's made good decision after good decision after good decision.
She has a lifetime of success. Why would you be anything less than another good decision?
Get some therapy, mate. And consider putting a ring on her finger, because she sounds like a keeper.
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There's no way for anyone here to know what to look for in this guy's behavior.
You can try to message him not in person, have a mutual friend find out, or else just talk to him.
If you need a pretense or opener, you can always start by apologizing if you came off as being rude. ;]
It's not just used for people, I've seen it used when someone's pet dies. There's no reason you can't use it when an unborn child dies as well.
All it implies is that op lost someone important to him, and he did. He had a child on the way, and now he does not. It's fine for him to be sad about that.
Only if you leave him.
So, what do you do with a f.buddy you no longer want to be an f.buddy with?
You let them know by text, mail or a phonecall that you're done, then block them on everything and go online your best life. Call the cops if they come snooping around your new place. Get it on file so if you need a restraining order there's a paper trail.
Also might want to invest in something like a Nest camera for the door(s). Not specifically for the ex, but for some added security in general.
Look, your girlfriend is a business owner AND she's pursuing a PhD, right? She must be super smart. This personal success has clearly come about because she's got brains and she's made good decision after good decision after good decision.
She has a lifetime of success. Why would you be anything less than another good decision?
Get some therapy, mate. And consider putting a ring on her finger, because she sounds like a keeper.