Ill try to make it make sense. I want to feel like I'm getting the loyalty and love that I'm giving. When I'm in love with someone, of course I notice if other people are attractive, but I'm not fantasizing and I'm not going out of my way to look for that. If I'm horny, masturbating, whatever, I'm thinking of my man. I think sex and sexual energy is a lot more special and connected when it's something that stays between the couple. I think you appreciate your partner more when they're the only one you're getting off to. And my exes and i always had fun making dirty videos for each other to watch later. I really feel awful getting very hot and confident in front of someone if I know they prefer jerking it to other women when I'm not around. My partner is enough for me and I want to be enough for my partner. I realize not everyone shares that opinion.
How about you both agree to spend up to $X amount on a single item for yourselves then on Christmas morning you can tell each other about what you bought?
But TBH your husband sounds like an ungrateful knob that should at least pretend to be thankful for your thoughtful gifts.
I can appreciate having a trauma response, but this implicit idea that she is helpless re her own verbal response when she is “triggered” is naked to credit. Feeling a certain way is one thing. Lashing out verbally just seems self-indulgent.
If you change your mind, I would suggest she publicly apologize in front of theae people, and to not touch her again in public in front of such people. It is unfair that you have to subject yourself to her random a-hole behavior, and she can work on fixing herself without your help.
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It's big enough to be confusing and he needed to go searching for where his clothes were.
I am imaging a closet twice the size of my apartment.
Ill try to make it make sense. I want to feel like I'm getting the loyalty and love that I'm giving. When I'm in love with someone, of course I notice if other people are attractive, but I'm not fantasizing and I'm not going out of my way to look for that. If I'm horny, masturbating, whatever, I'm thinking of my man. I think sex and sexual energy is a lot more special and connected when it's something that stays between the couple. I think you appreciate your partner more when they're the only one you're getting off to. And my exes and i always had fun making dirty videos for each other to watch later. I really feel awful getting very hot and confident in front of someone if I know they prefer jerking it to other women when I'm not around. My partner is enough for me and I want to be enough for my partner. I realize not everyone shares that opinion.
How about you both agree to spend up to $X amount on a single item for yourselves then on Christmas morning you can tell each other about what you bought?
But TBH your husband sounds like an ungrateful knob that should at least pretend to be thankful for your thoughtful gifts.
I can appreciate having a trauma response, but this implicit idea that she is helpless re her own verbal response when she is “triggered” is naked to credit. Feeling a certain way is one thing. Lashing out verbally just seems self-indulgent.
If you change your mind, I would suggest she publicly apologize in front of theae people, and to not touch her again in public in front of such people. It is unfair that you have to subject yourself to her random a-hole behavior, and she can work on fixing herself without your help.
You don’t love her
You keep trying to dig yourself out of your hole but it just keeps getting deeper ? obligatory giggity
Okay, it’s USUALLY a man.