Get a prenatal paternity test. Then decide what you want. But I suggest you not date anyone atm unless you are serious about them. Then when the baby comes establish your legal parent rights and visitation. But you will want to play nice because otherwise this will not be fun for either of you. I think she just wants you to keep other woman away from the baby at least for a while which is fair.
She sounds toxic and envious of you. I’d avoid her. Instead of feeling puzzled by her behavior and wondering what’s up, see her as toxic and envious and that you don’t like her. Keep your guard up because it’s a matter of time before she stabs you in the back, or front. Don’t trust her. Don’t discuss her with anyone. Don’t make eye contact with her. If you have to, like stuck in small kitchen at a party with her, greet her or make superficial conversation. Then exit the room with a smile. Never let her see how you feel about her. As far as she or anyone else knows, everything is cool between you two. Got all that?
So true. I've tried to be nice before but to be used against me and this is a high probability it will happen to you as well. If he wants it it's unlikely to be just a one time or rare occasion thing. They usually keep pushing with the excuse that you just need to get used to it. Just say no
I only have one thing to say “if it aint broke don't fix it”. In other words don't blow up a happy healthy marriage for a threesome. Sex in real life is rarely ever like something you see in a porn and you will 99.999% either change the dynamic of your marriage or the friendship. If shes determined to give you a fantastic present for your 30th birthday then go on an amazing trip, but for gods sake don't have sex with her friend.
Get a prenatal paternity test. Then decide what you want. But I suggest you not date anyone atm unless you are serious about them. Then when the baby comes establish your legal parent rights and visitation. But you will want to play nice because otherwise this will not be fun for either of you. I think she just wants you to keep other woman away from the baby at least for a while which is fair.
I’m not sure. Something about an older man who preys on younger women. Just doesn’t scream one of life’s success stories to me.
Sorry, read that wrong.
I think you’re just going to have to trust him and see how it goes.
You have only been dating two months. Some people aren’t supposed to be in a relationship.
She sounds toxic and envious of you. I’d avoid her. Instead of feeling puzzled by her behavior and wondering what’s up, see her as toxic and envious and that you don’t like her. Keep your guard up because it’s a matter of time before she stabs you in the back, or front. Don’t trust her. Don’t discuss her with anyone. Don’t make eye contact with her. If you have to, like stuck in small kitchen at a party with her, greet her or make superficial conversation. Then exit the room with a smile. Never let her see how you feel about her. As far as she or anyone else knows, everything is cool between you two. Got all that?
So true. I've tried to be nice before but to be used against me and this is a high probability it will happen to you as well. If he wants it it's unlikely to be just a one time or rare occasion thing. They usually keep pushing with the excuse that you just need to get used to it. Just say no
I only have one thing to say “if it aint broke don't fix it”. In other words don't blow up a happy healthy marriage for a threesome. Sex in real life is rarely ever like something you see in a porn and you will 99.999% either change the dynamic of your marriage or the friendship. If shes determined to give you a fantastic present for your 30th birthday then go on an amazing trip, but for gods sake don't have sex with her friend.