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Rick, Maria and Lisa, y.o.
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Date: November 6, 2022
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I would like to apologize first as your post indicated as if you are loaded and you sounded like an atm for your wife and her 'friends'…
You want to be gaslighted and cut off from everything you know? Your 26 you have so much time for a child if that’s your ultimate goal. It doesn’t have to be with someone who you’ve known for a year and hasn’t shown positive qualities. Do you even on-line together yet? Who pays the bills?
Talk with her about it. But in the end, you may need to leave her if she doesn’t try to find the root cause of the issue and resolve it.
A sexless marriage is highly unrealistic and will only end badly for both of you.
We all agree he’s cheating, right?
Maybe you guys are too young and unsettled to parent a child.
I think you’ve reached the point in your relationship where you’ve discovered you’re incompatible. The reasons you care about her aren’t more than a footnote to the things that are making you unhappy or frustrated in this post.
also: you don’t need to stay with her just because she has no friends. You are not her friend fairy or her savior from feeling lonely. There’s a whole wide world of ways for her to meet people – particularly for those who are religious they have built in communities. She’ll be okay.
My oldest brother was the same way.
He is six years older than me. When I was born , shortly after he went to live with his grandparents on his dad's side. Because my bio dad beat him. My mom chose a man over him.
As years went on when he would come around our mom would put him down, treat him different and made us kids treat him poorly too. He grew up abused and feeling un wanted. The only way he got attention was to act out. He started to do drugs, and all kinds of crap. To him any attention was good attention.
He would get upset and beat on himself too, his grandparents babies him and spoiled him. But they shoved religion down his throat as his grandpa was a preacher, so he felt he had to be the perfect kid for them. And the stress got to much for him.
He has been in and out of the mental hospital but never really seeked help after leaving the hospital.
What your bf needs is mental help. Also might want to find out if he is on drugs. They make his condition worse. But he needs someone to be there for him and help him get help.
Good luck it's tough going through this. I was only one in family to realize what my brother was going through and didn't turn my back on him. He got clean and is doing better. There is light at end of tunnel.
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For Christmas I’m taking her to a resort in Mexico, everything paid for , we will be spending the new years there and yeah my GF has my entire heart dude and guess what the only reason I’m able to do this trip to Mexico is again because of Camila and her family.
My parents divorced after they had me and my brother and they are both aging and kinda lonely. So that’s definitely a fear
At which point will your love fade? You wanna watch her cheat in front of you? Will that be a mistake you both can work through? What if she gets pregnant with his child? Will you both love it like it's yours?
Get yourself together! It is long over!
It sounds like you have a complicated history with this man and that you are concerned about his behavior and the well-being of his current partner. It's understandable that you would want to protect her from potential hurt or harm.
It's important to remember that you cannot control the actions of others, and ultimately, it's up to this man and his partner to decide what is best for their relationship. However, if you are concerned about the well-being of his partner and feel that she may be at risk for infidelity or other harmful behavior, it might be helpful to offer your support and to let her know that you are there for her if she needs someone to talk to.
It's also important to consider your own boundaries and to prioritize your own well-being. It may be helpful to distance yourself from this situation if you feel that it is causing you stress or anxiety. If you are feeling overwhelmed or distressed, it might be helpful to seek support from a mental health professional who can provide you with a safe and confidential space to work through your feelings.
Honestly, when you start inviting you places to like games, he really was sort of ghosting you. And you know it to you when you saw that he had another girl there that got in the car with him afterwards. You didn’t do anything wrong he’s manipulative and I probably didn’t work out with her which is why he came back around with you, so just let him go.
This is so fucked up. Time to end this relationship
So hurting someone you care about is right for you? Really? What a crappy counsellor you have.
As a woman in my 40s, I wouldn’t give a single shot about getting a picture of my Husband eating lunch with a woman.
But, as a woman in my early 20s, who had been cheated on before? It would definitely bother me and make me question some things.
I just hope she’s mature enough to address it, and not just go the “you can’t do it because I say so!” route.
Going through your previous posts, you've only been with this guy for a year, correct?
I don't know this guy, but how you're describing him comes off as him being selfish and maybe even narcissistic. Not to mention you've stated he owes you around $2000 at this point.
If this were me, I'd start planning my leave. Try to get back as much money as possible; if not, cut your losses and leave. This guy just does not seem to be the right fit for you.
His response: he said “I’m sorry you’re feeling this way”.
That's not an apology
Please contact your friends and family. You don't have to tell them what has happened, but you do need to build that support network again.
See a therapist to work through the trauma and help guide you going forward.
If you can, leave him. You need to love yourself. You are worth love and compassion. You do not deserve manipulation and abuse. Your boundaries were pushed and, yes, you relented (understandably so), but you do not deserve to be pushed and manipulated into doing things you do not want to do.
Please find the courage and self-compassion to leave him. Make a plan to move in with friends or family.
Let's be honest: this will happen again if you stay. You will try to keep him (because “you've already sacrificed so much if you leave now then it was all for nothing”). It wasn't all for nothing. You learnt a valuable lesson. Your lesson was to stand up for yourself and not put someone else's desires before your needs. Btw, staying because you've already sacrificed so much is a sunk cost fallacy. You will only keep losing if you stay. He will threaten to leave unless you agree to go through with things you are not comfortable with doing again. Leave now. It is never the wrong time to make the right decision.
Yeah thought the same,,, he’s trying to rationalise how to dump this chick for this other chick and not come out the bad guy
Leave her alone. You're the selfish ass who screwed up. Just let your ex heal and move on.
I’m not letting my kids do sleepovers ever.
Please listen to this OP!! You are so young – you don’t need to be with a rapist. There are no “” necessary here – he raped you plain and simple. And let’s not forget that HE CHOKED YOU, which is pretty much the number one sign that a man will eventually KILL you. Get out now, get counseling for what happened to you – I’m so so sorry this man turned out to be a monster.
If you haven’t made it official then she’s not with you and she can do whatever she wants. Sounds like you’re not together but you’re wanting to be. She hasn’t said she’s dating you exclusively therefore how can trust be broken if you’ve never made it official? This doesn’t sound like it’s going to end well.
Have you tried therapy to deal with your trauma? If not, I’m not sure how successful you expect to be in romantic relationships with unresolved issues.