You need to break up. The difference in wanting kids is a dealbreaker he might sabotage you to get you pregnant. He doesn’t listen when told what you like and don’t like. He could easily put important dates on his calendar in his phone. He doesn’t care about you or what you want.
If she had a Tinder then it's likely she wants a relationship, but just not with you. She's not returning any affection, so this really just sounds like a case where she just wants fwb with you. Nothing more. Maybe she wants more than one fwb, idk.
If you haven't, talk to her. Straight up ask her what she wants out of you. A serious discussion where you both lay out what you want and where to go.
You did the right thing OP. Also if you're sure you don't want kids you ought to look into a vasectomy. It's unfortunate that men don't have many birth control options.
A 26 year old wanting to date a 17 year old is a HUGE red flag!
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I’m sorry :(( I think he’s using you for sex. Please don’t give yourself to him anymore unless he gets his shit together
You need to break up. The difference in wanting kids is a dealbreaker he might sabotage you to get you pregnant. He doesn’t listen when told what you like and don’t like. He could easily put important dates on his calendar in his phone. He doesn’t care about you or what you want.
If she had a Tinder then it's likely she wants a relationship, but just not with you. She's not returning any affection, so this really just sounds like a case where she just wants fwb with you. Nothing more. Maybe she wants more than one fwb, idk.
If you haven't, talk to her. Straight up ask her what she wants out of you. A serious discussion where you both lay out what you want and where to go.
By “inappropriate conversations” do you mean intercourse? Or related activities?
Because if it was just talk, it’s nothing. If it was anything more, then….
You did the right thing OP. Also if you're sure you don't want kids you ought to look into a vasectomy. It's unfortunate that men don't have many birth control options.