Maybe you can do one of those Amish-type things where you “leave the farm” so you can do all the drugs in the world, then go back to him (if you survive). It's as sensible an idea as listening to your friend.
If you’re having these feelings then he isn’t the one for you. You wouldn’t be having these feelings if you were with someone with whom you are actually comparable and meant to spend your life with.
I think the best thing to do is to talk to a professional. People cheat on people they love for a whole host of reasons.
Maybe you need the external validation. That need for external validation will get satisfy itself but it can leave your life in ruin. Finding why you need that and talking it through could improve your mental health.
Don't unburden yourself on your husband. Talk to someone before this hurts him and you.
He’s implying that men will always be top dog for being able to impregnate many women and be the dad for all the children where as a woman can only have one baby at a time but won’t know who the father is if she’s had sex with multiple men around the same time
That's for the best. No one who cares would want you to feel so hurt and unwelcomed. You don't deserve that treatment and I'm sorry you've endured it for as long as you have. See this as a good thing and a beginning of better times ahead.
Bruh a vasectomy at 25?
I mean do what you want, but there’s other options than that to prevent having kids.
Like condoms, spermicide, birth control, etc.
Considering you may divorce and you could remarry, you never know what your future girlfriend/wife will want or what you will want in 5 years.
Maybe you can do one of those Amish-type things where you “leave the farm” so you can do all the drugs in the world, then go back to him (if you survive). It's as sensible an idea as listening to your friend.
If you’re having these feelings then he isn’t the one for you. You wouldn’t be having these feelings if you were with someone with whom you are actually comparable and meant to spend your life with.
I think the best thing to do is to talk to a professional. People cheat on people they love for a whole host of reasons.
Maybe you need the external validation. That need for external validation will get satisfy itself but it can leave your life in ruin. Finding why you need that and talking it through could improve your mental health.
Don't unburden yourself on your husband. Talk to someone before this hurts him and you.
Tell her you have to go to the police, what follows will reveal the truth
You are being extremely unreasonable and immature.
you protect your father by keeping your name on the account (and making a prenup).
He’s implying that men will always be top dog for being able to impregnate many women and be the dad for all the children where as a woman can only have one baby at a time but won’t know who the father is if she’s had sex with multiple men around the same time
That's for the best. No one who cares would want you to feel so hurt and unwelcomed. You don't deserve that treatment and I'm sorry you've endured it for as long as you have. See this as a good thing and a beginning of better times ahead.
OP clearly stated going to the gym was partly her idea. What are you talking about?