So? Buddy did make it pretty clear that he was unavailable to his ex over Christmas.
We really don’t know too much about the details of the relationship between OP’s boyfriend and his ex. What we do know is that he initiated the break up, he’s setting a very clear boundary with the ex about Christmas plans and that Ex is not going to be included and he’s choosing to not share any info about OP with the ex.
The way I see it we have 3 possibilities:
the boyfriend is trying to keep his options open with the ex, in case the relationship with OP doesn’t work out.
Ex may be a little crazy in some way and the boyfriend is not able to completely cut her out of his life for some reason. He could be looking to protect OP from some crazy stuff by telling ex he’s not available over Christmas and he’s hiding the gender and relationship status in order to try and protect OP from crazy behaviour.
Ex may be a massive gossip or could be a somewhat shitty and impulsive friend. She may aggressive in her teasing of the boyfriend when it comes to his relationships. He may just want more time to figure out if the relationship with OP will work before allowing ex to know that he is in a relationship.
No matter what the actual scenario is, OP should initiate a conversation with her boyfriend to determine the real situation, and make a decision based on what the boyfriend says. She can just say “I happened to overhear part of your conversation with Ex, and I heard you say x and y. I’m confused about why you would say something like that to ex. Would you please explain why you chose to not tell Ex that you have your girlfriend over for Christmas, and why you are also saying that you are not able to spend any time with her over Christmas and are choosing not to introduce us while I am visiting?
Possible he jacks off in them I used to when I was young
So? Buddy did make it pretty clear that he was unavailable to his ex over Christmas.
We really don’t know too much about the details of the relationship between OP’s boyfriend and his ex. What we do know is that he initiated the break up, he’s setting a very clear boundary with the ex about Christmas plans and that Ex is not going to be included and he’s choosing to not share any info about OP with the ex.
The way I see it we have 3 possibilities:
the boyfriend is trying to keep his options open with the ex, in case the relationship with OP doesn’t work out.
Ex may be a little crazy in some way and the boyfriend is not able to completely cut her out of his life for some reason. He could be looking to protect OP from some crazy stuff by telling ex he’s not available over Christmas and he’s hiding the gender and relationship status in order to try and protect OP from crazy behaviour.
Ex may be a massive gossip or could be a somewhat shitty and impulsive friend. She may aggressive in her teasing of the boyfriend when it comes to his relationships. He may just want more time to figure out if the relationship with OP will work before allowing ex to know that he is in a relationship.
No matter what the actual scenario is, OP should initiate a conversation with her boyfriend to determine the real situation, and make a decision based on what the boyfriend says. She can just say “I happened to overhear part of your conversation with Ex, and I heard you say x and y. I’m confused about why you would say something like that to ex. Would you please explain why you chose to not tell Ex that you have your girlfriend over for Christmas, and why you are also saying that you are not able to spend any time with her over Christmas and are choosing not to introduce us while I am visiting?
Thank you, adult in the room.
I mean. he is sexually pleasing himself using your body. What about this isn't assault?
Thank you, adult in the room.
I mean. he is sexually pleasing himself using your body. What about this isn't assault?
Waaaaay to fast. Eeeek. Run
This story makes zero sense, there must be something you’re missing
P.S.
GTFO Reddit and get a lawyer
At the absolute bare minimum, you need a lock on your bedroom door to keep the rapist out of your room.
She will approach your girlfriend, if you don't. You should get ahead of her story.
Good. You are not married so do what is best for you. You will never forget this and he can’t be trusted. EVER.