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Date: December 2, 2022
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Talking to you is a chore? Not worth working on anything if he isn't interested
Hey, you can check the subreddit r/aromantic
I am aro, so feel free to ask here. For me it has always been clear who I am, I just did not know what to call it until 6 years ago. Aromantics do not experience romantic attraction, so we don't have crushes, don't fall in love and don't see other people as potential romantic partners. We don't have that “pull” towards other people to be romantic with them. Hope that makes sense!
You can't just turn off your stress. The things you are going through ARE stressful. Finding a job is very hot, and thats even without being disabled. If he thinks its so easy to just stop stressing why is he always complaining that he's stressed too?
I think personally it would be smart for you to take a break or break up completely. Hes constantly invalidating your feelings and that is not something a good partner does. And then to accuse you of making him stress out more and telling you to just stop feeling what you're feeling is a very toxic mindset. You're both allowed to be stressed. You're allowed to vent. Partners are there to support each other.
Not for one person to tear the other down, blame their stress on them, and invalidate any emotion they might have about it.
I bet breaking up will reduce your stress levels because you won't have to worry about bottling everything up or not being able to feel.
Sorry I didn’t mean to make my post so vague. By “let” I meant just letting it go and moving on from it, no trying to convince him not to or anything like that. I am not gonna hold him down or threaten him or anything like that. I also meant that I fully expected him to abstain like me up until this point, but with this miscommunication I realized just how some people feel about drinking and realized not everyone thinks like I do. Even if it is an age appropriate thing, does not make me worry any less.
Maybe he has a pop socket on his phone to keep his phone upright and hands free lol ?
You can't be friends immediately with the guy who just dumped you. And I do mean you personally. You don't have the stomach for it and it's really not good for your mental health. I would give it time before you even try to be friends again and it will take awhile to return, if it ever does – the friendship may be ruined completely.
As for getting over it, time. I had a really bad breakup six years ago which changed the trajectory of my entire life (mostly with choices I made), and it took years of being single and working on myself but it was worth it.
So my ex broke up with me 2 years ago. In this last 2 years we had a on-off thing.. we were going through “no contact” about 4 times.
You entered that grey area that comes from never actually properly breaking up. What you are going through is just delaying facing the reality it is over, fully letting go, fully moving on, because you keep stoking the fire.
But clearly whatever caused the breakup never really went away nor did the feeling she had it ought to be over. The fact she is 'obsessed' with you is not a positive, especially as she acknowledges she doesn't want to date you. It shows that she knows those two feelings are different.
Might finally be time to break up properly. Actually process it this time. And that means proper no contact, moving on, letting go.
Maybe you could send him money for the snacks? You don’t “owe” him anything and I doubt he would accept money from you just to pay his bills. If you phrase it like you want to send him some money for the snacks he provided, he might accept it.