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Date: October 2, 2022
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He is actively pushing back on marriage, he won't get married to you because he doesn't want you to be the mother of his children.
He refused therapy.
He isn't confused, his actions show exactly what he is going to do, his family don't like you, they like this younger version who has no life experience, she is untouched by his kinks and he likes it that way.
I am truly sorry he has led you on to beleive he would have a family with you, he won't. He is going to go and choose this other naive person who everyone is behind as a relationship.
You may be in denial, something about you not going back to therapy suggests to me that you don't want to face this as a truth. However it isn't going away and you won't get what you want from him.
Sorry again, but don't waste anymore time with him.
No. An ultimatum is unnecessarily controlling. It says, “If you love me you would do this.”
Instead, create firm boundaries and stick to them.
Boundaries say “I love myself so therefore I won’t do this.”
There’s no joy in stalking to see how many women he’s following or liking. He’s right, staying with him while stalking his Instagram isn’t normal or healthy.
You do not know my relationship well. ? before my boyfriend became trucker, I paid for his schooling so he can help himself in the future whether I am in it or not. This time around, my mother became very ill and her pancreas is failing. I'm ONLY asking for advice on what I should do about the situation. Yes, he has paid my bills and I appreciate him deeply for helping me. He offered to help, I never once begged him for ANY of his money.
Honestly you needed to know that he was wanting to hurt you. That he enjoyed it. He has mental health issues, and now you know that. People who enjoy hurting other people and do it intentionally are mentally ill. I hope that you now understand you were not crazy, but he was gaslighting you to doubt yourself.
You also know that this can happen with other guys as well. Also some friends can be like this. You know you need to protect yourself from those kinds of people. But you also need to learn how to find people who are not like that. There are many good people in the world, and those are the kinds of people you want in your life. It's a naked lesson to learn, but it's something everybody needs to know. You have been psychologically abused by this man, and now you can finally heal from it. Therapy would help you. Take care.
As a guy who's had a bunch of surgeries (from cleft lip/palate and related complications), I wanted to ask about the lip and tongue ties. Has the speech therapist talked about the possibility of surgery for those? Has a pediatrician, oral surgeon, or ENT? Tongue and lip ties can cause a bunch of complications. For example, lip ties can cause dental issues.
I don't know about tongue/lip tie procedures in particular, but a lot of surgeries work best (and are the least traumatizing) when we're kids. I had one pretty severe surgery when I was 18 and a very minor sort of inverse of that surgery 16 years later. The recovery from the first one took several months, but I remember basically laughing it off the whole time. I had a few issues, but they really just didn't bother me much. The more minor one kicked my ass, and it was truly a tiny fraction of the first one.
If you haven't, I'd really recommend you to talk to a doctor about those procedures.