I agree to an extent, the reason I don’t think she’s using me for a visa is because 1. She never knew where Scotland was until I shower her on the map 2. For the first couple months I was meant to go there but we changed it to her coming here as it’s a lot easier (I made that decision) 3. She originally thought I was in the US Maybe I’m wrong, either way I know she is draining me mentally and I hope we work out but your advice truly has been great, I wasn’t sure if I did the right thing or not
I dated an alcoholic. It’s not too fun bc they turn you into an alcoholic also over time. I’m glad I broke up with him and now I don’t drink, smoke weed or smoke cigarettes, quit all 3 within a month of getting the fuck away from that person.
Eh, it gets to be in a gray area when you end a relationship but still continue the sex. I will tell you from my own personal experience that I went through this and it just did not feel right for me. Mainly because of the same things you are dealing with. I never really trusted that my ex wasn't messing around with other women because technically we weren't in a relationship and I felt uncomfortable with his interaction with other exes that was being hidden from me.
Long story short, emotionally it's probably better to just try to move on and find someone else. Even if the sex is good, it's not worth the anxiety or emotional pain. Either he can commit to a relationship (if that's what you want) or you just start fresh with someone else. Idk, it seems like a lot of guys end relationships but still want the benefits of sex lol. I don't know if that's your situation but I've noticed it happens often.
If changing religion is something they are comfortable asking of others, why don't they change theirs?
He might be content with his life. Are you content with continuing to date someone with lower ambition than you?
I agree to an extent, the reason I don’t think she’s using me for a visa is because 1. She never knew where Scotland was until I shower her on the map 2. For the first couple months I was meant to go there but we changed it to her coming here as it’s a lot easier (I made that decision) 3. She originally thought I was in the US Maybe I’m wrong, either way I know she is draining me mentally and I hope we work out but your advice truly has been great, I wasn’t sure if I did the right thing or not
The mf is 22 years older then you and speaks in riddles because he sucks at communication.
You’re 27, you’re too young to be putting up with a shitty mf who’s old enough to be your dad.
I dated an alcoholic. It’s not too fun bc they turn you into an alcoholic also over time. I’m glad I broke up with him and now I don’t drink, smoke weed or smoke cigarettes, quit all 3 within a month of getting the fuck away from that person.
Eh, it gets to be in a gray area when you end a relationship but still continue the sex. I will tell you from my own personal experience that I went through this and it just did not feel right for me. Mainly because of the same things you are dealing with. I never really trusted that my ex wasn't messing around with other women because technically we weren't in a relationship and I felt uncomfortable with his interaction with other exes that was being hidden from me.
Long story short, emotionally it's probably better to just try to move on and find someone else. Even if the sex is good, it's not worth the anxiety or emotional pain. Either he can commit to a relationship (if that's what you want) or you just start fresh with someone else. Idk, it seems like a lot of guys end relationships but still want the benefits of sex lol. I don't know if that's your situation but I've noticed it happens often.
That isn’t in reference to the treatment he’s receiving. “Do what you need to do to take care of your kids properly.”