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Date: December 9, 2022
He tracked you down live? That is a huge red flag. What did he do/have for you to want to give him a second chance?
Sorry man, but it feels like there are only three ways this can go.
You get married. Nothing changes. You begin to resent each other and probably split wasting years.
You realize that you guys are just sexually incompatible and it may not be fixable. You both move on.
She eventually gets comfortable with the idea of sex and things start working out.
Obviously you want number 3, but it's also the outcome with the slimmest chance of actually happening. I think, as hot as it is, you are going to have to decide for yourself if it's worth a sexless relationship to you to keep her in your life, and could you love her and be happily married to her even without the physical intimacy. If you can, then there's no need to ask this question. If you can't, then I think the fair thing to both of you might be to go your separate ways. Best of luck either way it turns out.
You're in a toxic relationship now
but every now and then he might express his sorrow, and I don’t know how to drill it into his head that IVE MOVED ON!
The experience was probably traumatic for him, as well as you dumping him immediately afterwards. Guilt and shame probably ate him alive for months.
Here, it sounds like you're dismissing and belittling a deeply painful subject for him, which isn't going to provide healing.
I'm not saying you shouldn't have bronken up. Once trust is gone, a relationship is dead on arrival. Sometimes trust can be revived from and the relationship slowly regrown, but I would certainly think your relationship is exceptional.
Trauma and shame does funny things. Just because you've moved on doesn't mean he's not still still struggling with grief and shame.
Tell him you've forgiven him and you hope that he'll do likewise towards himself rather than trying to indulge in self-pity for the next 30 years. Tell him you respect his decision to quit drinking. At a certain point he needs to decide he's done enough and he can brush that chip off his his own shoulder. He doesn't need you to brush him off.
He avoids clubs like the plague, which I had no issue with at the start, but now I want to go partying with him!
OK. Just don't go to bars or clubs. Party somewhere else.
He doesn’t drink, which is fine too, it’s something he has stuck to since the event two years ago.
He's not missing out on that much. My SO and I are both social drinkers on special occasions but we only do it like once a month when we know we can sleep off the mild hangover Saturday morning. I don't understand people who have a desire to get drunk every weekend, all weekend.
You suck.
Coming from someone in an Age gap relationship, this is unhealthy. Frankly, the porn consumption and the way you say he speaks to you about sex is more concerning to me than him being frustrated about not having sex. I would definitely encourage you to take another look at your relationship.
Stop giving her spending money, if she wants to do that kind of thing, she can get a job and pay for it herself.
If you have feelings for him why are you not in a relationship? Ask him out. Otherwise cut ties with him because of the possibility that he is sleeping with them. Nobody wants community dick.
…do u even hear yourself Lmao
Honestly, are you planning to have children? If so, would your bf be willing to cut his parents out? It doesn’t sound like it because he definitely defends his father. Ask bf if he could trust his father to be alone with his future daughter.
Believing “I know time is running out for me to have a healthy baby” at 26 – yeah, brainwashing is definitely the word for it. OP, he’s doing something called “negging” you. He’s making you feel bad so you’ll think he’s your only option and chance at happiness. He is not. He is a 100% chance of unhappiness. The sooner you leave, the happier you’ll be.
I mean if he's being this much of a POS and invalidating you, and avoiding actively listening or frankly even CARING about you, then you should leave him and continue to work on yourself. I promise you'll do no substantial healing as long as you continue to be abused and neglected by him.