He needs therapy. He's going to tell your kids this is normal, and expected, and that if they don't do it they're bad people or fools. He needs therapy. This is how generational trauma is going to move forward.
Ignoring that you decided to keep having kids with a man who is actively accusing you of cheating then gaslighting himself into it being okay because trauma, you have three kids. Boys he will raise to do this to other people. Girls he will tell HAVE to do this or else they're guilty of something that never happened. Your husband is going to harm these kids.
I mean, it really is that easy. Deadbeat parents do it all the time. You just gotta be okay with the potential consequences of your choice.
You’d be surprised the amount of people out there without a license because it got suspended due to lack of child support payments. Some people just really dgaf.
Girl this was.. this was not good. You should’ve never done something you didn’t feel comfortable with. Your spouse and that two cent hoe are the villains though. Imagine the audacity! They wanted y’all to watch them get it on and sit tight. You don’t have to apologize to anybody. Pack your bags and get out. Seriously. It’s not worth your time, energy, or effort. This will always be held over your head regardless of the fact that they were having sex. Don’t let these cheaters gaslight you.
It sounds like you're being pulled in many directions. I don't love the solution of you having to make 3 separate meals as it's not fair to you, but if you need to give the kids some more iPad time while you do some cooking they are going to be fine.
Ask a coworker how to sell her name. Then if it's a super common sense name that you'd look like an idiot if you can't spell, just laugh and say ” last name” and move on. If word gets to her that you're asking about her. Tell her you're fond of her and you wanted to make sure you're getting her name right
Who's name is on the rent?
He needs therapy. He's going to tell your kids this is normal, and expected, and that if they don't do it they're bad people or fools. He needs therapy. This is how generational trauma is going to move forward.
Ignoring that you decided to keep having kids with a man who is actively accusing you of cheating then gaslighting himself into it being okay because trauma, you have three kids. Boys he will raise to do this to other people. Girls he will tell HAVE to do this or else they're guilty of something that never happened. Your husband is going to harm these kids.
I mean, it really is that easy. Deadbeat parents do it all the time. You just gotta be okay with the potential consequences of your choice.
You’d be surprised the amount of people out there without a license because it got suspended due to lack of child support payments. Some people just really dgaf.
Still hypocritical.
They are family now like it or not…
Also OP mentioned daughter wears just bra also so… yeah… nothing weird about that at all ?
Lol, for real
Girl this was.. this was not good. You should’ve never done something you didn’t feel comfortable with. Your spouse and that two cent hoe are the villains though. Imagine the audacity! They wanted y’all to watch them get it on and sit tight. You don’t have to apologize to anybody. Pack your bags and get out. Seriously. It’s not worth your time, energy, or effort. This will always be held over your head regardless of the fact that they were having sex. Don’t let these cheaters gaslight you.
It sounds like you're being pulled in many directions. I don't love the solution of you having to make 3 separate meals as it's not fair to you, but if you need to give the kids some more iPad time while you do some cooking they are going to be fine.
Ask a coworker how to sell her name. Then if it's a super common sense name that you'd look like an idiot if you can't spell, just laugh and say ” last name” and move on. If word gets to her that you're asking about her. Tell her you're fond of her and you wanted to make sure you're getting her name right
she is chatting me rn to my whereabouts but I'm really drained of what she did Idk what to feel