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Date: October 2, 2022
It's been two months. Give yourself more time. People move on in different speeds and that's okay. Try to go out and focus on other people than the people you live with so you have as little contact as possible to your ex.
I was with a a man who would hurt me and choke me. I got pregnant and aborted. 8 years later and I glad I made that choice. I'm sorry your going through this. It can be naked to leave someone once you have a trauma bond. Please think of yourself and your children. I wish you the best
So, they should stay together when he's being verbally abusive just because they've been together a long time and have kids? That's how you get a broken home where the kids secretly wished the parents broke up long before they do.
You are in denial. That man WILL kill you and if you stay, you're dumb as hell. Idiot.
You and your wife aside, do you think that’s a good environment for kids to grow up in? Right now, that’s pretty much their own point of reference for how to behave, so they’ll grow up thinking that however you guys are, is how it’s done.
Is that what you want their lives to look like, do you want them to think that’s how relationships work?
This one is nude to say. You are quite young, and two years together isn’t that long. He does sound quite stressed right now. I think if you two weren’t at an engagement step before the move, you can’t expect just because you moved to now get engaged. There could be an element that he feels resentful about getting married now, even if he does want to, because since you moved he might feel guilty and very pressured into having to marry you. Like I said he can feel that way even if he wants to marry you.
My husband and I went to couples counseling before we were married. It’s a very good idea. Before you commit any more of your life to him, getting true feelings out, whether it leads to marriage or a break up, at least you’ll get an answer.
I hope it works out for you two. However, just to give some perspective and hard earned life experience, I’m now 44, and I was married the first time when I was 24. We had been together since we were 20. I felt time was passing by and despite red flags, did love him and wanted marriage and to be settled and all that. For me, in retrospect, I realize I could’ve easily walked away and met someone else and got married at 28, 30, 35, and still had the kind of timeline I wanted for my life.
Woah. Emotional abuse? That is a far stretch.
He attempted suicide after a phone call where OP “stood [their] ground” and was “very angry.” That sounds like OP ripped him a new one for not attending the night away.
While I think OP has every right to be upset after being stood up five times in a single month, it sounds like he might be experiencing severe depression.
Some of the symptoms of depression include lack of motivation, cancelling plans last minute due to the lack of motivation, losing attachment/feelings for things (and people) that you love… and attempting to, or thinking about taking your own life.
There are some things left unidentified. What events has he stood up in the past month? What was his reasoning for these events? This is important to understanding his mind set.
Regardless, I do agree that OP's partner is in no way mentally capable of taking care of himself, let alone a fragile little person. It is 100% in OP's best interest to put space between them, at least until he gets the help he needs. Medically, mentally and otherwise.
Could their relationship be abusive, toxic and all the in between? It could be. But this single incident does not sound like emotional abuse.
If he had threatened the suicide attempt, it would be an entirely different story.
I hope all parties in this situation seek the help that is needed. Good luck OP, and try distracting yourself with immersive hobbies. Stress can be very dangerous during pregnancy, for both mom and child.
He's shown you that his behaviour is not changing. You're pregnant with his child and he's still acting like this!? Imagine what it's going to be like when your baby is born. Do you want your child growing up around parents who fight and a father that has no respect for you? I know it's nude to accept because you want to have a family, but this won't be a happy family based on your BF's actions
This is what she further replied:
He’s extremely good Don’t worry U r rotten N ur thinking too Why r u reacting so much?
Like, What did she expect me to say. After reading her texts – I blocked her atm.