Being upset with someone and not wanting to perform acts of service like cooking, laundry, and cleaning up after them, seems reasonable.
Maybe depends upon what the argument was about. But it just feels icky to have to “serve” someone who disrespected you and you are unhappy with.
While you wouldn’t just not feed your kids because they upset you, your spouse is an adult. This adult is presumably capable of making a sandwich or heating up leftovers. If the fight is big enough, they’d be a fool to expect someone to cater to them.
well you should be! You were being supportive and empathetic and that's mostly seen as a good thing. Sometimes, even if the friend thinks they need your support, the support you offer is just enough to make continuing the toxic relationship possible. Like, it didn't matter if he hurt her, because she could cry on your shoulder. You removed your poor aching shoulder and she promptly broke up with him for good. Well done you!
Did you blame her for ruining your bf’s friendship with her boyfriend by her boyfriend cheating? It’s her fault her bf cheated? Your insecurities run very deep.
bro don’t respond at all she will lead you onto a heartbreak, cut it off now before it gets worse dude. If she couldn’t meet you on Sunday cause of work, then ended up not going to work at all. Then tells you to make plans on Monday for her just to say it’s actually her father’s birthday to avoid you. Don’t waste YOUR time wanting to hangout with someone who doesn’t want to spend their time with you.
I’m glad you are going to help yourself get over your sexualization of her friendships.
I know that men are raised to basically never connect with other humans on an emotional or comforting level until they have a girlfriend but that is some messed up toxicity.
Physical touch is bonding and not automatically sexual. And being bi doesn’t mean any of your girlfriends friend are into her. Just like you’re not into every girl you ever meet.
I hope you hug your dude friends and start breaking down these boring boundaries that just isolate people. Humans are social beings and we thrive off more hugs, more touch, more connection.
Either ghost and block him or tell him that you are sorry that he feels this way and to have a nice life. Then block him. He is trying to pull you into a conversation that you don't need. He is a manipulative, controlling man-child and you can do better.
Boom. Case closed.
Actions out of spite are usually not correct.
Being upset with someone and not wanting to perform acts of service like cooking, laundry, and cleaning up after them, seems reasonable.
Maybe depends upon what the argument was about. But it just feels icky to have to “serve” someone who disrespected you and you are unhappy with.
While you wouldn’t just not feed your kids because they upset you, your spouse is an adult. This adult is presumably capable of making a sandwich or heating up leftovers. If the fight is big enough, they’d be a fool to expect someone to cater to them.
Oh it’s definitely the stupid choice here.
I am not proud of it
well you should be! You were being supportive and empathetic and that's mostly seen as a good thing. Sometimes, even if the friend thinks they need your support, the support you offer is just enough to make continuing the toxic relationship possible. Like, it didn't matter if he hurt her, because she could cry on your shoulder. You removed your poor aching shoulder and she promptly broke up with him for good. Well done you!
Did you blame her for ruining your bf’s friendship with her boyfriend by her boyfriend cheating? It’s her fault her bf cheated? Your insecurities run very deep.
bro don’t respond at all she will lead you onto a heartbreak, cut it off now before it gets worse dude. If she couldn’t meet you on Sunday cause of work, then ended up not going to work at all. Then tells you to make plans on Monday for her just to say it’s actually her father’s birthday to avoid you. Don’t waste YOUR time wanting to hangout with someone who doesn’t want to spend their time with you.
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I’m glad you are going to help yourself get over your sexualization of her friendships.
I know that men are raised to basically never connect with other humans on an emotional or comforting level until they have a girlfriend but that is some messed up toxicity.
Physical touch is bonding and not automatically sexual. And being bi doesn’t mean any of your girlfriends friend are into her. Just like you’re not into every girl you ever meet.
I hope you hug your dude friends and start breaking down these boring boundaries that just isolate people. Humans are social beings and we thrive off more hugs, more touch, more connection.
Either ghost and block him or tell him that you are sorry that he feels this way and to have a nice life. Then block him. He is trying to pull you into a conversation that you don't need. He is a manipulative, controlling man-child and you can do better.
Girl. Don’t have a baby with a deadbeat dad.