She's full of crap and has been lying to you and has probably been cheating awhile and doesn't want to get caught fucking a co-worker. Tell her no separation that you are filing for divorce and she needs to go! She lied and cheated and doesn't care, she is emotionally and probably physically cheating. File for divorce and tell her that you are done.
You DO force him!!! You sound extremely insensitive. He DID tell you gently the first time and still you “made him have sex with you.” You know he has a history of SA but you demand sex when he’s reluctant or tired and then blame him for making you feel bad. Are you joking! You’re making his past trauma about you. You’re playing the victim after disrespecting his boundaries. You show zero empathy for his feelings or past trauma. To answer your questions: You are not justified in being angry with him but should be angry with yourself. Your feeling hurt because you’re a narcissist who’s made his pain all about you. The way out is to let him find someone who will be sensitive, compassionate and better in synch with him sexually. He deserves way better.
This is odd. At least in the US, they are normally generous at giving out loans to medical students (with or without securities). Have you spoken to an academic advisor at your university to see what your options are?
Don’t bother he isn’t worth it
Platonic relationships between men and women don’t exist. Your male friends want you even if they don’t act on it.
She's full of crap and has been lying to you and has probably been cheating awhile and doesn't want to get caught fucking a co-worker. Tell her no separation that you are filing for divorce and she needs to go! She lied and cheated and doesn't care, she is emotionally and probably physically cheating. File for divorce and tell her that you are done.
Let him go…he won't change
You DO force him!!! You sound extremely insensitive. He DID tell you gently the first time and still you “made him have sex with you.” You know he has a history of SA but you demand sex when he’s reluctant or tired and then blame him for making you feel bad. Are you joking! You’re making his past trauma about you. You’re playing the victim after disrespecting his boundaries. You show zero empathy for his feelings or past trauma. To answer your questions: You are not justified in being angry with him but should be angry with yourself. Your feeling hurt because you’re a narcissist who’s made his pain all about you. The way out is to let him find someone who will be sensitive, compassionate and better in synch with him sexually. He deserves way better.
This is odd. At least in the US, they are normally generous at giving out loans to medical students (with or without securities). Have you spoken to an academic advisor at your university to see what your options are?
I agree