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Jennie and Sophia, y.o.
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Date: December 19, 2022
It's probably just trauma though. When things went wrong in a previous relationship… It's only fair that he doesn't want the same to happen twice.
Don't feel bad pls.
No, I don’t think it’s your job to start that conversation. Let her come to you, if she ever decides to. In the meantime, I think what you’re doing is the right thing, being civil to her and not deliberately excluding her, but not bothering to go out of your way to be friends.
Sometimes in life, people just don’t get on. You and your partner’s sister might just never be besties and that’s fine. If it upsets your partner, maybe just try and talk to them and let them know that you have nothing against her, you just don’t see you and her being friends. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just a thing.
There’s a saying – you could be the biggest, juiciest peach on the tree, but some people just don’t like peaches.
I'm proud of you for realizing you need to make some changes and admiting you fucked up. I wish you great success n your heading process
He said he read a lot of stories that when someone in a relationship is raped, they almost immediately tell their partner about it out of guilt. Which is fine but he doesn’t get that my reaction can also be normal. He said that I have been dealing with it for 2 years (I haven’t), and that he has only just been made aware and he’s dealing with it right now so he’s the priority.
I understand how he can feel betrayed because of the lying, dishonesty and withholding information. But, throughout our relationship this is the only topic where I have withheld information (did not lie about the information I would give – but would lie if he asked anything else happened etc). He can’t see that lying about this is somewhat understandable. And everyone under his Reddit post apparently said that I was garbage because the hundreds of times he prompted me I was dishonest so that makes me a cheater. I’m kind of angry like of course I was dishonest I was not okay ???
He says it’s my fault that we got back together 2 years ago (he knew about one kiss back then). I shouldn’t have let him try to win me back after what I had done. Which I don’t get bc he says he could get past that but can’t get past the lying. Idk it’s all so exhausting.
Thanks for taking the time out to respond to me I appreciate you and your advice 🙂
Tbh he sounds like kind of a shitty partner. He should he able to patiently communicate his needs to you without being a jerk about it.
It's also hard to not include the family. They invite him to things all the time. He never thinks to say hey what about …. He says he didn't know. His mother knows, she knows it's not practical right now.
You’re also a pushover lol. You keep making excuses for your friend, who couldn’t give a shit.