With all due respect, the obvious question now is why didn't you just log into that account and repost it to other subs? Instead you made a new one and copied the post word for word. That looks hella sus….. I along with the rest of the reddit community have NO WAY of verifying if what you say is true. Thus, this looks like you are just stealing someone's post and manipulating karma.
I can't accept a prenup which ensures I am screwed as a housewife should things go wrong.
Then he has to amend the prenup to take into consideration that you're putting your professional life on hold. If he doesn't, you don't sign the prenup and you do not marry him.
He wants you to commit to a relationship where YOU are taking the risks and he is taking none. Don't fall for it.
Stars have to align to make a woman cum these days. It is easier and faster to get a mortgage. Jokes aside, I think you should explain that vibratior is the tool not a replacement.
You dont want to be a young stepmom, right, OP?. Just think of the child. If you dont think you want a child now, then it is best for you to immediately tell the man to stop texting you outside of work and that you are not interested in taking this further.
What he is doing now is chasing you albeit slowly by being 'friends'. His aim is always for a relationship. Just cut him off immediately or you will always be awkward in front of him and may end up being with him due to pressure.
She’s been swearing, shouting and getting angry with me and I’ve been struggling to cope. S
Then start with individual counseling. Couple's counseling is a no-go when one person is manipulative/controlling or abusive….and even if she lost someone, she has no right to treat you this way.
I think that's a good idea. His mom wanted me to go fully confront him all crazy but I don't think that's best. I don't want to add anymore fuel to the fire. Especially since this behavior isn't normal for him so I'm concerned about his mental health. Thank you for your advice.
The people here are only going to shame you & side with your boyfriend. This is unfortunately something you’ll have to work out amongst yourself, as people on the internet worship dogs.
My advice is to just ignore his comments. Let him care for your animals if he wants to, but sit him down for a firm conversation about how his choosing to do this doesn’t mean you’re subject to being belittled. If he continues to put you down, maybe it’s best to continue living apart.
I would think that once a week is the bare minimum for a normal relationship. I'd expect more at your ages. It could be a case of waning passion, though.
Does your partner, by any chance, suffer from depression? One of the first things depression affects is the sex drive.
Helping her out= maybe helping with food or things around the house or a few things that just make her life easier or maybe clothes on occasion or just a nicee personalized gift or some flowers or taking her out to lunch or breakfast and letting her vent because she's having a shitty week
Suspicious gifts= lingerie, underwear..etc
Ones understandable and fine the others weirdly creepy
Do confront her. If she decides to make you the bad guy for spying, you really should consider ending marriage.
I think you having both acces to each other social messages would be needed for trust going forward. Incidentally you should ask her to show you all of her accounts and messages when you confront her. Reason being, there is likely more of that going on.
If she either refuses, or does it after delay allowing deletion of evidence you should assume the worst. You need to make her understand in face of her sexting you suspect her of more than that, and her only chance to reconcile is to show you her messages right then and there. Otherwise you will have no choice, but to believe sth even worse is going on.
Btw if it will seem like there is more to her infidelity, you may consider DNA testing, just in case.
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With all due respect, the obvious question now is why didn't you just log into that account and repost it to other subs? Instead you made a new one and copied the post word for word. That looks hella sus….. I along with the rest of the reddit community have NO WAY of verifying if what you say is true. Thus, this looks like you are just stealing someone's post and manipulating karma.
I can't accept a prenup which ensures I am screwed as a housewife should things go wrong.
Then he has to amend the prenup to take into consideration that you're putting your professional life on hold. If he doesn't, you don't sign the prenup and you do not marry him.
He wants you to commit to a relationship where YOU are taking the risks and he is taking none. Don't fall for it.
Tell him the wedding is off.
Stars have to align to make a woman cum these days. It is easier and faster to get a mortgage. Jokes aside, I think you should explain that vibratior is the tool not a replacement.
Has he considered doing a shit in bed?
If so, he’s not the man for you.
You dont want to be a young stepmom, right, OP?. Just think of the child. If you dont think you want a child now, then it is best for you to immediately tell the man to stop texting you outside of work and that you are not interested in taking this further.
What he is doing now is chasing you albeit slowly by being 'friends'. His aim is always for a relationship. Just cut him off immediately or you will always be awkward in front of him and may end up being with him due to pressure.
I mean, enjoy your new sister.
Or, kick her out and resume living your life. Your call.
I feel that. I grew the balls to break up tho. Therapie yay.
She’s been swearing, shouting and getting angry with me and I’ve been struggling to cope. S
Then start with individual counseling. Couple's counseling is a no-go when one person is manipulative/controlling or abusive….and even if she lost someone, she has no right to treat you this way.
Your bf handled that so well. Don't think I would. Keep him or I will. I'm a straight male
I think that's a good idea. His mom wanted me to go fully confront him all crazy but I don't think that's best. I don't want to add anymore fuel to the fire. Especially since this behavior isn't normal for him so I'm concerned about his mental health. Thank you for your advice.
The people here are only going to shame you & side with your boyfriend. This is unfortunately something you’ll have to work out amongst yourself, as people on the internet worship dogs.
My advice is to just ignore his comments. Let him care for your animals if he wants to, but sit him down for a firm conversation about how his choosing to do this doesn’t mean you’re subject to being belittled. If he continues to put you down, maybe it’s best to continue living apart.
Best wishes and best of luck.
I would think that once a week is the bare minimum for a normal relationship. I'd expect more at your ages. It could be a case of waning passion, though.
Does your partner, by any chance, suffer from depression? One of the first things depression affects is the sex drive.
Would depend on the gifts
Helping her out= maybe helping with food or things around the house or a few things that just make her life easier or maybe clothes on occasion or just a nicee personalized gift or some flowers or taking her out to lunch or breakfast and letting her vent because she's having a shitty week
Suspicious gifts= lingerie, underwear..etc
Ones understandable and fine the others weirdly creepy
Just south of!
Do confront her. If she decides to make you the bad guy for spying, you really should consider ending marriage.
I think you having both acces to each other social messages would be needed for trust going forward. Incidentally you should ask her to show you all of her accounts and messages when you confront her. Reason being, there is likely more of that going on.
If she either refuses, or does it after delay allowing deletion of evidence you should assume the worst. You need to make her understand in face of her sexting you suspect her of more than that, and her only chance to reconcile is to show you her messages right then and there. Otherwise you will have no choice, but to believe sth even worse is going on.
Btw if it will seem like there is more to her infidelity, you may consider DNA testing, just in case.