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Pierre & Lola, 29 y.o.
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Date: December 20, 2022
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He said he doesn't want sex before marriage, you've had sex before marriage.
He says he feels guilty and wants to wait, you say you can't do it. You need it to feel close.
Do you not see how you are contradicting yourself?
You say you've tried therapy it doesn't work, you can't be fixed. First that's not true. But finding a therapist is like finding a good relationship. It's hard to do.
Second, if it was true it would mean you should never be in a relationship. As you will always be toxic to those you love.
So pick. Therapy and stop fucking your boyfriend. Or no therapy and no boyfriend.
You shouldn't date people who you don't trust. You also shouldn't spend half your bank account on people you don't trust.
Having sex without kissing kinda sucks, not many people are gonna be down with that. I’d recommend stopping using other people as need fulfillment machines. Get some good therapy, go to the gym and figure out what you want.
No he is not
Sounds like the choice to move was bad timing, a high risk situation. That risk came showed up.
But, now you're here and forced to face it.
You keep pushing his ass to go get a job. Do not tip toe around this.
This will ruin the relationship if not handled (might already have). He's basically saying he's comfortable to throw you under the bus. You get to deal with all the consequences and responsibilities. That is not a relationship.
And you get him to fix this BS:
No apology, no saying that he’ll find a job soon, just leaves. This morning he hasn’t said a word to me either. He’s literally acting like I’m in the wrong.
Everything in the upcoming months, is likely going to come at your expense. That is not fair to you.
He needs to understand the severity of this situation and you every right to be livid.
If his attitude doesn't change in the immediate future, break up with him. This is not a person you marry.
And if you're forced to burn through your savings for the sake of surviving, meanwhile he's lolly gagging taking he's sweet time. That is not a marriage quality partner. You leave and never look back after the lease.
If your name is not on the lease, then let him deal with the payments and you move back home. And if this goes on for a long time and he doesn't care about the weight/stress placed on you. The moment your lease is up, break up and go back home to your family.
Its challenging times like this, that show the quality of your partner. This is when you need them to step up.
Yeah that’s right, when you cheat you forfeit the right to have female friends for a while, maybe forever. You’re not to be trusted, and she’s right to feel suspicious. I don’t think anyone here believes that the conversations you deleted were “innocent“ either. Stop lying to us, Reddit sees right though you dude. We aren’t trauma bonded to you like your soon-to-be-ex.
Also, neither one of us wants to break up when we do. We love each other. I’m just not getting what I need in terms of emotional intimacy, partnership and progress. I either blow it up with a fight we can’t go back from or we keep breaking up and getting back together.
5 or so serious months in I start noticing them not showing up like I’d expect. They were super engaged before that and even talking long-term before I was. I’m not trying to get married after 5 months. I just want to be a priority, see signs they’ll be there for me when I need them (these women show me they can’t be — not even that they won’t. They can’t.), and start to plan things together a few months out. They seem to get scared once things get real.
Potatoes really equals chicken nuggets
Where does one draw the line? She mentions almost every thing he does with other girls, when the conversation is not initially about that
not the point but i’m hoping your birthday just hasn’t happened yet and you were 18 not 17, still weird but legal at least
Honestly nothing here is terrible. Crappy sex is not super uncommon the first time. If everything else is promising most people understand and overlook it.
Next time be more open and use your word. There was a real lack of communication there.
Sex is awkward for most people. It’s not like the movies. You have to learn to use your words and not take it too seriously.
It’s not that no woman wants to hear you haven’t been with many women, it’s that they don’t want to be responsible for teaching you. With sex you learn together. You have to be open to being open. Try stay away from alcohol, it’s not your friend when you are already anxious.
Put this down to experience, stay out of the Manosphere and loosen up a bit. You’ll be fine.