there are children involved in this situation, and your finances aren't in the best place. regardless of what happens between you two, I'm sure she's a good parent right? your kids deserve two happy healthy, present parents not splitting time or not seeing one parent or missing out on a family. even your finances may be drastically affected by a divorce and custody battles only for what outcome, for the kids to lose a loving mom/dad just because of marriage trouble? there are people who stay and work though it provided the one who had the affair is open to working and putting in the effort. reddit is quick to jump to divorce and are completely intolerant to cheating, but this is YOUR life, your kids best interests need to be protected. so don't feel pressured by any of the responses and take it one step at a time.
Break up. Block all forms of contact and involve the police if she keeps contacting you and coming to your house. She doesn’t love you. She misses having you as her emotional punching bag and source of drama. If she wanted to be better, she would do something about it like get mental health treatment. This continues because you allow it.
Get a bidet attachment. Flush between wipes if she is going to use excessive paper. If she can’t do that, she’s inconsiderate and…odd. Whether you want to stick around knowing her apparent dysfunction is only a call you can make
Soooo… he’s attracted enough to fuck you, but not enough to make you his gf? Use that confident voice in your head and say ‘fuck him’. Lose the weight BECAUSE you want to- for confidence, heath or whatever. NOT for a guy who wants you with condition.
Why did you tell him? Some secrets should remain secret.
You fucked up your own life. Learn how to be loyal to yourself. Also, learn to shut up. Your partner doesn't need to know everything.
You need to dump this guy. Because he will NEVER really get over this. And he will use it against you forever.
there are children involved in this situation, and your finances aren't in the best place. regardless of what happens between you two, I'm sure she's a good parent right? your kids deserve two happy healthy, present parents not splitting time or not seeing one parent or missing out on a family. even your finances may be drastically affected by a divorce and custody battles only for what outcome, for the kids to lose a loving mom/dad just because of marriage trouble? there are people who stay and work though it provided the one who had the affair is open to working and putting in the effort. reddit is quick to jump to divorce and are completely intolerant to cheating, but this is YOUR life, your kids best interests need to be protected. so don't feel pressured by any of the responses and take it one step at a time.
Break up. Block all forms of contact and involve the police if she keeps contacting you and coming to your house. She doesn’t love you. She misses having you as her emotional punching bag and source of drama. If she wanted to be better, she would do something about it like get mental health treatment. This continues because you allow it.
Get a bidet attachment. Flush between wipes if she is going to use excessive paper. If she can’t do that, she’s inconsiderate and…odd. Whether you want to stick around knowing her apparent dysfunction is only a call you can make
You might be in love, but you’re clearly a placeholder for him. I wouldn’t convert either and really think you should move on. You’re incompatible.
Soooo… he’s attracted enough to fuck you, but not enough to make you his gf? Use that confident voice in your head and say ‘fuck him’. Lose the weight BECAUSE you want to- for confidence, heath or whatever. NOT for a guy who wants you with condition.
She's using you. There's nothing cute about that.
I require a quote for this statement. And please don't quote a page maintained by angry women.
Hey OP, why don't you tell us what city you on-line in so we can watch the news for the Infanticide of Femicide your husband commits.