Not letting people meet your child is safe, responsible parenting. Not acknowledging that you even have a child for a month, that’s deceitful and terrible dating. Nobody benefits from having that vital info withheld beyond a first date.
I'd advise honesty and straightforwardness but after reading shit on this sub I'm not even so sure anymore. There's a possibility that this will offend your girlfriend and even a suggestion of that might completely destroy your relationship. She might start believing that without this fantasy you won't be fulfilled just with her alone and so on.
Thing is, if you've been with your gf for a year+ you should know best if she's the kind of person who will flip out and go insane after hearing this kind of a proposal, or whether she will simply respond according to her preference and act as if nothing had happened. No one else knows her better here than you do.
You could always try slowly introducing the topic, but in the end it is what it is, so if she's against it it won't really matter how you approach the topic.
I’ve known her for 15 years, she’s always been like this. I don’t doubt the money part because over the years there have been a few big hints and other people gushing about it but overall I don’t see it.
Just to clarify, during his gaming sessions, he is not completely ignoring me, maybe it was not clear. We can have a conversation, he comes to cuddles a little when it s loading or when he dies ( We have a not so great internet connexion so it is often ) But thank you for the advice
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not that it's relevant but when I was a toddler (around 3 yo) my mom would shower with me and I always peed on her feet to annoy her
So you think she might just be using me? And thats her plan for the future then as well.
It isn’t normal to need to let people know where you are- and your SO should be mean to you. Break up
Not letting people meet your child is safe, responsible parenting. Not acknowledging that you even have a child for a month, that’s deceitful and terrible dating. Nobody benefits from having that vital info withheld beyond a first date.
Get into couples counseling, now. He also needs individual therapy, something is CLEARLY going on in his head that isn’t good.
I'd advise honesty and straightforwardness but after reading shit on this sub I'm not even so sure anymore. There's a possibility that this will offend your girlfriend and even a suggestion of that might completely destroy your relationship. She might start believing that without this fantasy you won't be fulfilled just with her alone and so on.
Thing is, if you've been with your gf for a year+ you should know best if she's the kind of person who will flip out and go insane after hearing this kind of a proposal, or whether she will simply respond according to her preference and act as if nothing had happened. No one else knows her better here than you do.
You could always try slowly introducing the topic, but in the end it is what it is, so if she's against it it won't really matter how you approach the topic.
You just said he will be there for your anniversary. But you are still upset at him? Come on, you need to grow up
I’ve known her for 15 years, she’s always been like this. I don’t doubt the money part because over the years there have been a few big hints and other people gushing about it but overall I don’t see it.
Yeah that’s the thing I don’t know how I’d feel after
Just make sure to express to him what works and what doesn’t. Communication and comfort is key and of course be patient. Just have fun
Just to clarify, during his gaming sessions, he is not completely ignoring me, maybe it was not clear. We can have a conversation, he comes to cuddles a little when it s loading or when he dies ( We have a not so great internet connexion so it is often ) But thank you for the advice
Did you ask the friend whose house it is next week if your girlfriend is wanted?