The mod is exactly right. The reason why you see so many instances where leaving is encouraged is because by the time an OP is reporting an issue they are describing abuse, cheating or sexual assaults. Sadly, those issues tend to dominate here.
Ahhh… The joys of holding on to the “doctor's wife” title. Do you have a job? What's in your life apart from him and now all these people in your space?
So she basically wants me to choose how we break up, either cold turkey or slowly end it.
two options. Well really one..
Do we break up cold turkey, slow or try to fix things?
somene is inserting a third option the other person doesn't want….so my advice is to listen to your fuck buddy and pick one of the two options she is presenting..break up now or be her sidepiece for awhile, while she transitions to someone who wants what she wants. Not sure why you are inserting a third option. Only you want that. Now in reality you cant break up since you are nothing more than friends that fuck. There is no committed relationship, just two people fuck till someone better comes along. Sadly for you, someone better came along.
My second piece of advice is dont get into FWB situations in the first place. It ends poorly for the most part.
dude. i hope you realize he is not a brilliant guy. you are brilliant & have made him something with your love & support and now he’s showing you exactly how much he cares about you (which is not at all!) you deserve someone who would give the same that you do
I would just let her go. Otherwise you are just controlling her. She's going to (rightfully) resent you if you push the issue.
The “because of numbers” thing is a bit weird but if its a college party then whatever.
The mod is exactly right. The reason why you see so many instances where leaving is encouraged is because by the time an OP is reporting an issue they are describing abuse, cheating or sexual assaults. Sadly, those issues tend to dominate here.
They aren’t ready to hear it
Ahhh… The joys of holding on to the “doctor's wife” title. Do you have a job? What's in your life apart from him and now all these people in your space?
It sounded just like a couple pecks
Aight
This is the right answer
You do not owe her or her family anything. Move on and redirect that time and energy into finding a partner who actually cares about you.
So she basically wants me to choose how we break up, either cold turkey or slowly end it.
two options. Well really one..
Do we break up cold turkey, slow or try to fix things?
somene is inserting a third option the other person doesn't want….so my advice is to listen to your fuck buddy and pick one of the two options she is presenting..break up now or be her sidepiece for awhile, while she transitions to someone who wants what she wants. Not sure why you are inserting a third option. Only you want that. Now in reality you cant break up since you are nothing more than friends that fuck. There is no committed relationship, just two people fuck till someone better comes along. Sadly for you, someone better came along.
My second piece of advice is dont get into FWB situations in the first place. It ends poorly for the most part.
dude. i hope you realize he is not a brilliant guy. you are brilliant & have made him something with your love & support and now he’s showing you exactly how much he cares about you (which is not at all!) you deserve someone who would give the same that you do