If you love someone the thought of sleeping with other people doesn't even cross your mind. His actions aren't just concerning, they're immature and show a complete lack of respect for you and your relationship.
I understand how difficult this must be to hear after spending 5 years together, but you'll be doing yourself a favour to get out of that situation ASAP. You don't want to find out in another 10 years when you're both married with shared finabciand whatnot that he's been cheating on you.
This man has the mentality of an 18 year old.
He does this because u allow it. You have to make an ultimatum and stick with it if u want to be treated with respect
Honestly this is mind blowing that you've been with him this long and tolerated such bad treatment.
you need jesus man
I understand people like “weird porn” but is there not a line between “weird” and concerning?
If you love someone the thought of sleeping with other people doesn't even cross your mind. His actions aren't just concerning, they're immature and show a complete lack of respect for you and your relationship.
I understand how difficult this must be to hear after spending 5 years together, but you'll be doing yourself a favour to get out of that situation ASAP. You don't want to find out in another 10 years when you're both married with shared finabciand whatnot that he's been cheating on you.
Wtf is wrong w these guys? When even is this?!