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I don’t think you should be feeling guilty for lying when she was pushing you so hard into it. There were verbal and physical altercations over this and that was how you made them stop. Your mistake was thinking that because that immediate fight was over, everything was now fine.
If you tell her you do not want to have children with her, what will you say if she says, “I'm willing to forgo having children if only you will stay with me. If I can have you, I don't need children.”?
Also, you could be brutally honest and say you think you can find a more suitable partner that she is, but what will you say if she begs you to give her a chance to change into the woman you want?
You need to think a few steps further into this conversation and consider her responses.
Going with, “I made a terrible mistake, I thought I was ready for this, but I am not and never will be, I am sorry for the pain I've caused” says it clearly. You want out, and you are going.
Telling her you think she'd be a bad mother and you believe you can find somebody better is just being cruel.
Up under no circumstances should you say you want the best for her. While you may believe that is true, it is cheap and glib and unthinking. Don't say that to her. It's like a parent beating a kid and telling them they are doing it out of love. It's basic bullshit.
No matter what you say to her, she's going to wonder if what you say is true or real. She will have every reason to doubt you, and you need to accept that.
You are not going to be able to leave her without hurting her badly. There isn't going to be an ending that satisfies her. You will get what you want, being single. She will have to accept that you were not who she thought you were.
Do it as cleanly and simply as you can, and don't linger afterwards.
You mean ex GF.
I would add to this – book some sessions with a councillor so that you have help hashing out your separation. And don’t do anything dumb like sleep with someone else until the ink is dry. You’ve been married a long time, you owe it to each other to be honest and open about your feelings in a productive way.