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He didn’t want to hurt you. He didn’t think it would make a difference. He f’d up and he knows it. FIL is equally a piece a crap imo
Reading your post I was ready to come down on you but what you're describing just sounds like normal conversation and flirtation in a relationship. Unless you're saying these things while pouting/sulking in a tone that makes them sound more bitter than playful, I can't say it seems like you've done anything wrong.
Where does it say he wants to take their daughter?
“Sounds trivial” yet lists a bunch of things that obviously shows him cheating and breaking boundaries. Just leave at that point.
Break up with him then.
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Right, if someone cheats you leave its pretty simple.
Get a divorce and get sole custody of the kids, if she wants to be an irresponsible partner then she can do that all on her own and dont have her subject your kids to strangers around your ex wife
its not that i want to shout it from the rooftops, I actually don't, because it makes my dad look like a fool and I don't want to do that to him. Its more that I would like to confide in my best friend and be able to talk about this.
That should be easy!
The award sounds very subjective, especially considering to looks across a lot of sports.
The barries for the Trans athlete I'd imagine are greater than you BF and his friends. Amd I'd imagine the committee took into consideration the difficulty of the task at hand.
So, your BF claiming the athlete of the year all of a sudden is political is his attempt to discredit the achievements of someone and it is your BF that made it political. And your BF chose to choose the transphobic political side.
Yes. Until you're not.
Inviting new third parties is never a good idea if you're building something with someone. If it makes him uncomfortable why would you do that? Is it that important to you to have this “platonic” friendship at the expense of your partners discomfort?
That says a lot about you.
Thank you! Yes we are both in therapy individually. In fact I just arrived to meet my therapist. I’m feeling so exhausted by it all…I know his sobriety is very new and I’m trying to be understanding but I can’t sit back and do everything else by myself. He continues to chat with people on discord and tells strangers when we have had sex. It seems disrespectful to me.
Cut them loose asap
The situation is weird because you go from not even knowing if you want to date him, to feeling entitled to his time, then he tells you he wants to see other people, you tell him someone else asked you out (unnecessary) and now you’re upset.
I think with all that’s going on with you, it would be wise to work on yourself and want you want/how you feel without giving this guy mixed messages. Maybe instead of ghosting him, you could be honest and tell him you don’t know where your head is at and you need to sort yourself out alone.
That’s fucking weird. I would leave her.
Theres a few possibilities 1. She was trying to get with someone else (who then rejected her, leaving her with nothing). Shes upset because shes an idiot who messed up bad. 2. She did feel the relationship needed to end because the reason she gave, and shes upset simply because no one to replace you has showed up since. 3. She was told something bad about you from someone else and she reacted by breaking up with you. Shes either upset at you for what she was told or upset at herself thinking she overreacted by dumping you. 4. She had an anxiety breakdown, leading her to push you away in fear of dragging you down with her. Shes upset at herself for this, she wishes she hadn’t done it.
If you hadn’t mentioned her anxiety I would have said don’t write a letter, but I am thinking its a distinct possibility. If you really, really want to, maybe write one, asking if shes ok, that you heard she isn’t doing well, and that you’re worried about her. I don’t know if you should outright say that you love her and miss her and want to date her, especially since possibilities 1-3 are in play. However, just ask her to talk, and that you want to make sure shes ok and in a good place. However: be prepared for no response, or worse, an angry one. This is possibly playing with fire.
I feel bad for you OP, I’d feel the same way if I was in your shoes. Hope you find your way through this.
Who’s name is on the lease? If you’re on lease you get a say who “crashes” wit cha.
Does your boyfriend clean?
If this person is your bfs friend the bf should be talking with them not you, and kicking them out if house rules are not followed.
It sounds like no one is cleaning but you? If that’s true I would move out on my own without the messy roommate and bf that doesn’t do anything. Let them live in filth together
You are going to have to focus on you for a while, how you do that is going to be tough but you need to get through this just by doing what you need to for you.
You cannot avoid the conversation and he avoids it by getting angry.
I don't know if he is doing this deliberately or if he has some issues with focusing on studying.
Tell him to book the appointment or get some work, that he has to show you by the end of the day that he has done one or the other.
Have a back up plan to get out of his way and leave him to his sleep if he doesn't so you can focus on you.
I predict the future – I see a future where he doesn't work but pretends he is looking or just about to do something whilst you work very hot and still come back to a trashed home and clean and cook and do everything.
If that is what you want, then carry on because his patterns of work are not great and he isn't doing anything to change that.
You cannot support the both of you or borrowing and loans for months.
So what can you do?
OP, it's going to be OK man. I know it stings. I know that you drempt about this day and it's nothing like what you thought it would be.
But that's OK man. Sometimes we never know what life will have in store for us around the corner.
You held on for ten years to go back to a state of life you were at before, but you can't go back there. You can only move forward. One day, one hour, one second at a time.
Remember your time together. Think of it fondly. The drive it gave you. The inspiration. You can close that chapter now. The fight is done. You are now free to look forward to the next thing, and the next chapter of your life a free man.
Does this make it easier? No. But it does make it possible.
I have to ask is she “in your league” ? By that are you dating down? Just because she was top shelf in HS doesn’t mean she will be in 10 years. Will you be top shelf in 10 yrs? Will she?
He either has other girls he’s stringing along, or a steady girlfriend that he doesn’t see on a Thursday or something so that’s “your” day or he’s using you for sex until someone he considers suitable for a real relationship comes along.
Whatever his reasons you should walk away because he’s treating you like you don’t matter. He has no respect for you and I doubt he loves you at all.
Just. No. She’s the AH for asking you to leave. It’s your house too, so she needs to figure out how to coexist.
But, I can’t help but wonder… is there more going on? What does she plan to do when she has the place to herself?
Google statute of limitations for assault in your state, or call the police non-emergency line and ask how to file a report.
Please leave her alone.
You have a porn addiction, until you're done with that, you shouldn't be dating anyone.
And don't tell your future partner (if you can manage) that big breasts = perfect unless you date someone with big breasts, don't idealize big breasts in front of them.
Big dicks have little to do with women orgasming. Only 27% of women can orgasm through penetration alone, majority of women orgasm only through clitoral stimulation.
And shes a liar
So he pulled a meme when he quit.
He has told me a million times he will start a diet and exercise regime next Monday but never does because he is tired from work. I'm tired too but still look after myself He used to be better but has settled into the relationship because he knows he can get away with it I think
You're 13 aren't you
Regardless of him sulking like a little girl, you now have all the info you need.
He does indeed only want to see you for sex.
If he doesn’t want to see you during the day at the weekend for normal coupley things then you’re his FWB.
I’d cut my losses. It’s only been 6 months. Not long enough to have invested too much and wasted too much time.
This isn’t going to change. If he’s not interested in any more after 6 months he never will be. Not with you anyway.
I’m 41-year-old woman, and I love Stranger Things.
Me thinks she (your girlfriend) doth protest too much …
Yeah my BFs parents can also babysit a couple of times a week as they will be semi-retiring by then and we could also put him into nursery but that does cost quite a bit – her offer was to take him for those few days so we didn’t have to pay a nursery.
I just feel like I should be able to let her look after him. I don’t feel uncomfortable letting my bf’s parents have him so I don’t know why the anxiety is just around my mom. I feel like I’m overthinking it.
You can hire a private investigator. If you’re in a no-fault state and proving infidelity won’t help your case you can skip the drama and go right to the lawyer and serve her.
You have mentioned multiple times this is a tradition you established as a single person. Single. But now you also want to be in a serious relationship. It’s not wrong for you to want your lifestyle to be a certain way but it is less likely to be compatible for a serious relationship, especially with someone who has a kid. Essentially the person who stays home and doesn’t go no contact is left with all the responsibilities of maintaining a home, and in this case a kid. Work sucks up most people’s time already, and then there’s more responsibilities to attend to after work, leaving little time with partners to begin with. Again, it’s not wrong for you to want your lifestyle, but it’s not wrong for him to want a different one either. I’m sure there’s someone out there who wants the relationship dynamic you’re looking for, but this seems like a pretty serious incompatibility in your current relationship.
I divorced partly because of comments like this. Girl, if he loved you, he would listen to you how him saying these hurts your feelings and try to change how he approaches these subjects. My partner has body issues concerning his gut. The poor man has gastrointestinal issues so it gives him a distended tummy and he’s really self-conscious about it. I love him no matter how his tummy looks and have told him so. It’s his decision if he wants to do anything about it and when he’s ready, I’m here to help. We have a very open communication and when either of us is feeling insecure, we know the other has our back. We find solutions to problems and negativity as a team, not disguising hurtful comments as advice. Girl, he doesn’t care about you, he only cares about his image. You deserve better for yourself. Someone who truly loves you will support you when you need a shoulder to cry on, be happy for you when you succeed, and help you when you are struggling.
Lady… run! Hes showing you he is poison. Run! Now. Not tomorrow or a week from now.
Run.
Porn regularly reduces sex drive cause it’s addictive and easier handling yourself than making the effort with someone else.
It's not ABC or D It's not you An it's not her It's not condom or lube
SO WHAT IS IT? either YOU are the problem or SHE is the problem Everything everyone has said/suggested you've shut down So the only thing left is that she's also sleeping with someone else an getting it from THEM since it's not you or her
He knows you are interested. He’ll reach out for another time if he is. I wouldn’t ask again.
In some cultures, kissing another guy on the cheek as a form of greetings/goodbye is actually pretty normal. However, the neck is definitely weird.
Girl stand up! I hope he’s you ex boyfriend, he sounds like an idiot. He can’t handle the mess HE CREATED BY CHEATING. Leave him in the past, you are not his priority.
Don’t even have kids myself but I’m gonna go ahead and predict this arrangement w his family work will undo itself, unless he’s nuts.
Every one of my friends who are new parents seemed to find out quickly that “this is going to change your entire daily life” was an understatement. It’s like they’re gone but I totally get it lol.
Hope the best for you and your partner, I’d be very not thrilled at the decision he made without your knowledge, but this seems like something you guys can work out.
Enjoy the baby!
I do think it’s strange. If she hadn’t ghosted you it wouldn’t be as weird
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