But if that’s the case why is she apologizing? If my lady interest got sexually assaulted which is what you’re trying to imply the strange chad to have done (aka kiss her and she didn’t reciprocate) I wouldn’t ever ask or expect an apology.
you obviously dont know much about childhood abuse and abandonment trauma. not everyone fits in the same box. you are not helpful, i wont engage with you further.
You gave him a boundary. He set it on fire. You gave him another chance. He set it on fire. You gave him another chance. He set it on fire.
He begs. You come back. What will it take for you to recognize that he won’t change and he is spiraling further? What will it take for you to acknowledge you are getting dragged down with him?
You have a point. You are dating an addict. He will not change without him wanting change and your entire post is him not wanting change. What are you going to do? When are you going to prioritize you?
I am sure she is another victim. But I tried a few times already, she always goes back to him. It breaks my heart. I can see her slowly fading and there's nothing much that I can do. I still feel guilty that she went through so much just because she had a kid…but I am also tired of being used as an excuse for them not to take responsibility for their actions. She knows that my door is always open for her
Not the “both looking for” part because that implies mutuality.
But if that’s the case why is she apologizing? If my lady interest got sexually assaulted which is what you’re trying to imply the strange chad to have done (aka kiss her and she didn’t reciprocate) I wouldn’t ever ask or expect an apology.
So did he by telling his friend. Heyho.
They didn't start fights with me…
Probably because they weren't witches with a capital B.
you obviously dont know much about childhood abuse and abandonment trauma. not everyone fits in the same box. you are not helpful, i wont engage with you further.
You cannot change a person. Any person.
You gave him a boundary. He set it on fire. You gave him another chance. He set it on fire. You gave him another chance. He set it on fire.
He begs. You come back. What will it take for you to recognize that he won’t change and he is spiraling further? What will it take for you to acknowledge you are getting dragged down with him?
You have a point. You are dating an addict. He will not change without him wanting change and your entire post is him not wanting change. What are you going to do? When are you going to prioritize you?
I am sure she is another victim. But I tried a few times already, she always goes back to him. It breaks my heart. I can see her slowly fading and there's nothing much that I can do. I still feel guilty that she went through so much just because she had a kid…but I am also tired of being used as an excuse for them not to take responsibility for their actions. She knows that my door is always open for her
She is having gender dysphoria and is depressed because of that, and also she did have some symptoms through her teenage years.