I would take it at face value for now. Depends on what he did or how you reacted to the irritation I guess. I can think back to things I did that irritated my partner back when we were dating – just made me conscious not to do it again. We're 13 years married now.
So don't bombard his phone for a response or if he's mad is my best advice I can give. Can shoot him a message stating 'well for your two days, you want to get some food?' and wait. If he doesn't respond at all for a week, you 'screwed up'.
Thanks for your reply! She is thankfully not in my family, I do not work with her and I have cut her out of my life. My self esteem is coming back, I’m enjoying certain aspects of my life that were taken away from me.
The moment you said no and voiced that you weren't interested was the moment he should have stopped. It turned into sexual assault when he restrained you and continued on.
Leave and report him to the police.
Doesn't matter if he's never done it before. He just showed you who he is, believe him.
OP, you didn’t cheat on your girlfriend. You were sexually assaulted. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’d recommend getting out of that living situation as soon as possible at the minimum. You can report this to the police if you wish. How your girlfriend handles and reacts to this should inform you of whether this relationship is worth anything.
I think you should say you want to get your job back. Or if you would like to go 1/2 time and try to do job, non-profit, and kids that might be perfect. If your boss will let you. Then you tell him that you’re missing the community and interactions, that your self esteem was more wrapped up in having the job than you thought. Do not under any circumstances tell him the truth, or risk a divorce.
I missed the phobia, could you elaborate on what you mean? I re-read their comment but I can’t work out which bit you mean.
Get her gift certificates for a whole spa day. Start with one for a local spa for a massage and facial and then the salon for mani, pedi, and hair.
I would take it at face value for now. Depends on what he did or how you reacted to the irritation I guess. I can think back to things I did that irritated my partner back when we were dating – just made me conscious not to do it again. We're 13 years married now.
So don't bombard his phone for a response or if he's mad is my best advice I can give. Can shoot him a message stating 'well for your two days, you want to get some food?' and wait. If he doesn't respond at all for a week, you 'screwed up'.
And you married and had children with him because?
Thanks for your reply! She is thankfully not in my family, I do not work with her and I have cut her out of my life. My self esteem is coming back, I’m enjoying certain aspects of my life that were taken away from me.
He sexually assaulted you, OP.
The moment you said no and voiced that you weren't interested was the moment he should have stopped. It turned into sexual assault when he restrained you and continued on.
Leave and report him to the police.
Doesn't matter if he's never done it before. He just showed you who he is, believe him.
Nope and he knows it, that's why he's with someone 10 years younger than him! Noone his own age would stand for that BS
OP, you didn’t cheat on your girlfriend. You were sexually assaulted. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’d recommend getting out of that living situation as soon as possible at the minimum. You can report this to the police if you wish. How your girlfriend handles and reacts to this should inform you of whether this relationship is worth anything.
I think you should say you want to get your job back. Or if you would like to go 1/2 time and try to do job, non-profit, and kids that might be perfect. If your boss will let you. Then you tell him that you’re missing the community and interactions, that your self esteem was more wrapped up in having the job than you thought. Do not under any circumstances tell him the truth, or risk a divorce.