She's either actually suicidal which means she has some kind of underlying serious MH issue, something like depression, and objectively small unimportant things are causing her to spiral. In which case she needs a diagnosis and treatment.
I had 4 teeth removed under local when I was ten for braces and was completely unbothered during and after. It’s not that bad. My kid has had several operations between 2 and 7 and you’d never even know. She’s being dramatic and childish.
Yeah. You gave him the benefit of the doubt but he started to show more and more signs of interest. You asked him about it and he gaslit you.
Your husband needs a reality check. You shouldn't idly standby and let him make himself be the victim here. He's an adult. Not some little kid who hasn't learned how to emotionally regulate himself.
You are being a doormat. Relationships aren't all or nothing. You are his wife. You are allowed to set boundaries. This isn't a friend. I'm sure if it's just a friend; you wouldn't have to set these sort of boundaries right? He should care more of your feelings than his selfishness or this other person.
Stop believing his bullshit and your poor self esteem. He is actively flirting with her and putting her above you. He openly talks about how he dreams of being a thruple. And you're supposed to be the good wife and just sit there, nod your head and smile? FUCK THAT. You should feel mad. You should feel betrayed. You should feel guilty. That guilt isn't because you're taking a way something from him. Or limiting his relationships.
You feel guilty because you knew you were right but you let him have his way. Probably again because I'm sure there have been other instances in the past where you do this. The guilt you feel is not listening to the voice inside of you. You stuff your emotions away and make yourself to be the bad guy in this.
Please don't do that. Y'all need a coming to Jesus talk and couple's therapy and individual therapy. He needs to cease any communication with that person, IE NO CONTACT. Doesn't matter how he looks or if he misses out on outings with the friend group. This is what is needed to earn your trust and for him to prove what matters to him. It's only a matter of time before it crosses emotional intimacy before he escalates it. She may or may not accept his advances but he will eventually come crawling back to you. It didn't just happen. He is actively trying to cheat in front of you.
What's more important? His marriage and family life? Or his lame school crush? He is aware of all of this and you let him behave like a child. Stop coddling the fool and take care of yourself. He isn't capable of it.
Just out of interest, have you experienced similair?
She's either actually suicidal which means she has some kind of underlying serious MH issue, something like depression, and objectively small unimportant things are causing her to spiral. In which case she needs a diagnosis and treatment.
Or she's super dramatic and manipulative.
I had 4 teeth removed under local when I was ten for braces and was completely unbothered during and after. It’s not that bad. My kid has had several operations between 2 and 7 and you’d never even know. She’s being dramatic and childish.
It don't fuckin' matter bro… just let it go. It just really really does not matter.
Yeah. You gave him the benefit of the doubt but he started to show more and more signs of interest. You asked him about it and he gaslit you.
Your husband needs a reality check. You shouldn't idly standby and let him make himself be the victim here. He's an adult. Not some little kid who hasn't learned how to emotionally regulate himself.
You are being a doormat. Relationships aren't all or nothing. You are his wife. You are allowed to set boundaries. This isn't a friend. I'm sure if it's just a friend; you wouldn't have to set these sort of boundaries right? He should care more of your feelings than his selfishness or this other person.
Stop believing his bullshit and your poor self esteem. He is actively flirting with her and putting her above you. He openly talks about how he dreams of being a thruple. And you're supposed to be the good wife and just sit there, nod your head and smile? FUCK THAT. You should feel mad. You should feel betrayed. You should feel guilty. That guilt isn't because you're taking a way something from him. Or limiting his relationships.
You feel guilty because you knew you were right but you let him have his way. Probably again because I'm sure there have been other instances in the past where you do this. The guilt you feel is not listening to the voice inside of you. You stuff your emotions away and make yourself to be the bad guy in this.
Please don't do that. Y'all need a coming to Jesus talk and couple's therapy and individual therapy. He needs to cease any communication with that person, IE NO CONTACT. Doesn't matter how he looks or if he misses out on outings with the friend group. This is what is needed to earn your trust and for him to prove what matters to him. It's only a matter of time before it crosses emotional intimacy before he escalates it. She may or may not accept his advances but he will eventually come crawling back to you. It didn't just happen. He is actively trying to cheat in front of you.
What's more important? His marriage and family life? Or his lame school crush? He is aware of all of this and you let him behave like a child. Stop coddling the fool and take care of yourself. He isn't capable of it.
This is why God Almighty requires marriage before sex.