You should tell your gf that you're going to hang out with one of your female coworkers and give her very little info so she can get an idea of how you felt.
You could also ask her more questions about what she did that day, questions like if she ate alone or with her parents, to catch her on a lie, or if she ran into that guy and if she gives an answer that contradicts what you already know call her out.
assion that was important to him? It feels like he is trying to make you think of something that you did that hurt his feelings. If he was really pissed, he wouldn't be washing his dishes.
Maybe you told another person something about him that he felt you should have held in confidence.
There is no way of knowing until he decides to speak. I, personally, would not leave my home. If he wants to go, let him go. I agree with the others that you need to quit cooking meals for him or anything else for him until he comes around.
Please let us know the outcome. The silent treatment is very destructive. I hope it doesn't last long.
It's really easy to avoid mirrors, photos and scales, if you really want to. Especially working from home. Just keep an image in your mind that you can accept, like op says, she pictured herself as being around 12 stone and probably put a lot of work into upholding that illusion for herself.
Learning her true weight has shattered the illusion and she's struggling to make everything right in her head again. Once she processes the shock, she may be in a better place to start the journey of losing weight.
Reality is most relationships end and at your age it’s almost unheard of that a relationship goes the distance
He’s already showing where his priorities lie, there’s no chance whatsoever that he’s busier than I am and I’d be absolutely mortified and embarrassed if I forgot my SO’s birthday (even if I was in another city at the time)
We’ve been together for 2 years. This preference should have been stated when I told him about my friend before we were even officially a couple. That’s why I’m not understanding his stance. I didn’t post this to get judged for the people I’m friends with and its incredibly objectifying to reduce my best friend to “someone I’ve had sex with”. I don’t have sisters biologically but I consider her one.
What omission are you referring to?
You should tell your gf that you're going to hang out with one of your female coworkers and give her very little info so she can get an idea of how you felt.
You could also ask her more questions about what she did that day, questions like if she ate alone or with her parents, to catch her on a lie, or if she ran into that guy and if she gives an answer that contradicts what you already know call her out.
I would like to ask, what part should I apologize for? From my perspective, she drove a wedge and I tried to talk to her about it to salvage things.
Did you forget his birthday? A special occ
assion that was important to him? It feels like he is trying to make you think of something that you did that hurt his feelings. If he was really pissed, he wouldn't be washing his dishes.
Maybe you told another person something about him that he felt you should have held in confidence.
There is no way of knowing until he decides to speak. I, personally, would not leave my home. If he wants to go, let him go. I agree with the others that you need to quit cooking meals for him or anything else for him until he comes around.
Please let us know the outcome. The silent treatment is very destructive. I hope it doesn't last long.
It's really easy to avoid mirrors, photos and scales, if you really want to. Especially working from home. Just keep an image in your mind that you can accept, like op says, she pictured herself as being around 12 stone and probably put a lot of work into upholding that illusion for herself.
Learning her true weight has shattered the illusion and she's struggling to make everything right in her head again. Once she processes the shock, she may be in a better place to start the journey of losing weight.
PTSD is for everyone 🙁
Reality is most relationships end and at your age it’s almost unheard of that a relationship goes the distance
He’s already showing where his priorities lie, there’s no chance whatsoever that he’s busier than I am and I’d be absolutely mortified and embarrassed if I forgot my SO’s birthday (even if I was in another city at the time)
Woah. This is almost exactly how I approached my ex husband when I confronted him about why I had left.
Had no idea there was science behind it.
He was/is a sociopath but I got a lot of truths I couldn’t get otherwise.
We’ve been together for 2 years. This preference should have been stated when I told him about my friend before we were even officially a couple. That’s why I’m not understanding his stance. I didn’t post this to get judged for the people I’m friends with and its incredibly objectifying to reduce my best friend to “someone I’ve had sex with”. I don’t have sisters biologically but I consider her one.