If he isn’t willing to respect you by wanting to bypass this boundary you have of not wanting to have sex (for whatever your reasons are) then he ain’t it. Do you really want to be with someone that will threaten to end the relationship just to get what he wants? That can only lead to bad things. You’re so young! You should have control of when your body and whenever you want to lose it. Don’t let him try to control you like that. It definitely won’t be the last time.
Ok for some reason it wont let me respond to you guys but thanks, i did think it could just be an issue on my part but i wanted to make sure. This was a few weeks ago and we had a talk, i told her i forgive her but it might take me a while to not let it completely bother me but i do understand why she did it
This is your first warning of who he is.
If he isn’t willing to respect you by wanting to bypass this boundary you have of not wanting to have sex (for whatever your reasons are) then he ain’t it. Do you really want to be with someone that will threaten to end the relationship just to get what he wants? That can only lead to bad things. You’re so young! You should have control of when your body and whenever you want to lose it. Don’t let him try to control you like that. It definitely won’t be the last time.
Ok for some reason it wont let me respond to you guys but thanks, i did think it could just be an issue on my part but i wanted to make sure. This was a few weeks ago and we had a talk, i told her i forgive her but it might take me a while to not let it completely bother me but i do understand why she did it