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Relationships can come back from it but both have to put in effort. She's been the main person causing trouble so jt will be a lot of effort to come back from. She has to actually want to change and not just be driven from losing you. Communication has to continue, there has to be love there to build on. Yes, some relationships just end because the two have just had enough and are incompatible, but if she is doing things tou don't like and it's not really based on core values, then yes, it can bounce back if she ceases those things. But it's up to you two to decide that.
Girl run. Also 2 things
fear that I would leave him
This is the most important. This is an extremely essential information to share. And he chose to lie to keep you. He chose the easier way. The cowards way. He doesn't know how to communicate and isn't in a place for a relationship because of it.
I understand the fear, but in life and especially in relationships, the fear needs to be passed.
he wasn’t sure if she was being 100% truthful about the pregnancy
She is 7 MONTHS pregnant. She has had several consultations AND has shown FOR A WHILE.
If you’ve flat out told her that you’d appreciate it if she was more appreciative and less entitled and she hasn’t made a change then I’m not sure what else you can do. I suppose you could stop doing those things and tell her why. But to me (44F) it’s a personality trait/manners thing and you two aren’t aligned.
Cripes, my stepson (10YO) thanks me for making dinner or going to his ball game or buying him new clothes. I thank my partner when he mows the lawn or mops the floor. My partner thanks me for throwing in his laundry or doing the grocery shop. Thankfulness and gratitude are kind of core for us as a family. It’s how we were raised and how we are raising our kiddo.
I’m not sure how you fix this to be honest because as an adult, you’d think she’d have a handle on this.
First off, nothing in life is guaranteed, not marriage, not divorce, the excitement comes from being with the one you supposedly love, for better or for worse, face your fears and marry the woman you supposedly love, if you do not have plans on marrying her then set her free. 4 years is a good enough amount of time to know whether you want to marry someone or not and IMO you do not want to or else you would have by now.
You have to do what feels right for you. Emotional issues are the pits to resolve. It seems to me that the honeymoon is over for him and you are getting what he is willing to give for the rest of the time you are together. Any chance that you could return home while you are ill? You deserve to be happy.
I am a young man and I don't think you did anything wrong here. What happened is sad and unfortunate, and however you feel (including if you feel violated) is valid.
From the outside as a man and from your description, it doesn't sound like he ever had any intention to hurt you or make you feel that way. However, this is a perfect example of how important clear and enthusiastic consent is, and something that falls on both parties but more on the initiating person in the encounter.
In this case, he seemed to be the one moving things forward, so he should have gotten clear and enthusiastic consent for penetration from you before coming anywhere close to attempting it. It was wrong of him not to, and it is sad how many parents and educators don't communicate the idea and importance of consent properly to young men.