I'm not saying this to be offensive but constructive. You are both not communicating here about the issue at hand. There's nothing wrong with using your big girl words even during the talking stage and telling him it's a turn off or getting deeper into the conversation. This helps you in any stage of any relationship and helps you overcome simple issues.
You react by telling him straight up you do not find those jokes funny and he needs to stop. That if he has a problem with you drinking he should say so because maybe it's just an incompatibility you two found early and you can both reasses how you feel about each other. Outline that these jokes are not funny and not okay.
This doesn't necessarily sound like he's guilt tripping you. He's just being an ass. But you both kind of are by skirting around the issue. Which is something you should try not to do.
There’s nothing gay about platonic love between men.
As long as balls don’t touch.
I'm not saying this to be offensive but constructive. You are both not communicating here about the issue at hand. There's nothing wrong with using your big girl words even during the talking stage and telling him it's a turn off or getting deeper into the conversation. This helps you in any stage of any relationship and helps you overcome simple issues.
You react by telling him straight up you do not find those jokes funny and he needs to stop. That if he has a problem with you drinking he should say so because maybe it's just an incompatibility you two found early and you can both reasses how you feel about each other. Outline that these jokes are not funny and not okay.
This doesn't necessarily sound like he's guilt tripping you. He's just being an ass. But you both kind of are by skirting around the issue. Which is something you should try not to do.
There's no need to get so anxious about it
You dont really get how anxiety works, do you?