At the end of the day the real red flag is that his friends thought it was distressing enough to tell you, they betrayed their good friend to tell you, they obviously feel very very uncomfortable about it, enough to tell you, you probably don't have the full picture of the creepiness like his friends do, if he was genuinely a good person like you hope, with genuine intentions, his friends would not have felt so strongly to tell you and betray him.
I’m thinking to start therapy, every man I get involved with disregards my feelings because my sex is “good” but I feel dead now I’m tired of this pattern
Can you… do something about it then? If it is within your ability, you could consider swimming, as it is probably the best physical activity to lose weight.
I agree, though it is certainly an unpopular opinion. Just like most aspects of someone else's relationship is none of my business, why throw myself in the middle of 2 people I hardly know? We all take chances and decide to make our own beds. But hey, let's go out and save the world over the decisions others make that I had no control over to begin with.
You can’t cut them off if you live! with them.
At the end of the day the real red flag is that his friends thought it was distressing enough to tell you, they betrayed their good friend to tell you, they obviously feel very very uncomfortable about it, enough to tell you, you probably don't have the full picture of the creepiness like his friends do, if he was genuinely a good person like you hope, with genuine intentions, his friends would not have felt so strongly to tell you and betray him.
I’m thinking to start therapy, every man I get involved with disregards my feelings because my sex is “good” but I feel dead now I’m tired of this pattern
Can you… do something about it then? If it is within your ability, you could consider swimming, as it is probably the best physical activity to lose weight.
I agree, though it is certainly an unpopular opinion. Just like most aspects of someone else's relationship is none of my business, why throw myself in the middle of 2 people I hardly know? We all take chances and decide to make our own beds. But hey, let's go out and save the world over the decisions others make that I had no control over to begin with.