Yes, he absolutely needs to deal with his PTSD, and also his adultery.
And while being in public wouldn't be idle, a bunch of people have made their cheater call or tell family in person if that is a boundary for their healing/remorseful.
Just an option. Definitely not good to suggest that OP rugsweep the affair. That doesn't solve adultery.
Even if she does listen, do you really want to date a girl who drinks with lone men who approach her while she’s tanning?
Yes, he absolutely needs to deal with his PTSD, and also his adultery.
And while being in public wouldn't be idle, a bunch of people have made their cheater call or tell family in person if that is a boundary for their healing/remorseful.
Just an option. Definitely not good to suggest that OP rugsweep the affair. That doesn't solve adultery.