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Date: October 4, 2022
Depends on how much she gained. If she went from 110 lbs to 180 lbs, I would not be attracted to her anymore and I would be happy she feels better about her body, but I would break up with her.
Sounds like your boyfriend treats you like a sex doll, not an actual partner he respects and cares for. And the 10 year age gap just further confirms this notion…
My advice would be to dump this guy, he's an immature chauvinist who thinks his girlfriends exist to be sexual objects to him.
Your girlfriend isn't speaking to you because of their conversation. Maybe some “overreacting” is needed tbh
How is writing a few sentences on a piece of paper once a year “more than he his giving his current relationship”??
My husband is a classic deflector – laughs it makes a joke any time he's uncomfortable about anything.
I'm thinking it could have been the particular language used though – if my dude came to talk to me all serious and started with “I'm a premature ejaculator” I think I would laugh as well. Not because of the subject, but because of the word ejaculator. I can understand how hurtful that would be, especially on a subject he's already incredibly sensitive about.
Man, I'm seeing this completely differently than everyone else. You sound like you require a lot of attention and reassurance. I'm not saying that's a bad thing. I also have anxiety and need my husband to tell me when I'm being ridiculous and prove my anxiety to be unfounded.
But he's willing to do that.
It doesn't sound like your current partner wants that kind of relationship. And that's fair too.
If he wants to break up you need to just let him. It's not worth the fight. Find someone more compatible
Thanks to those who did respond. If you're reading this, I've taken everyone's advice in comments and on chat and decided to stop bringing it up and let myself worry about myself for now. My assumptions are apparently correct that it's not attractive. I guess I just needed to hear it.
I've been married happily for nearly 40 years, and my husband and I are both happy to be monogamous. When you have the right one, that one is enough.
Love is never enough. If love was enough the rate of divorce would be significantly lower. We can love someone a huge amount but know they are wrong for us.