A huge Nope for me. This is supposed to be the time when both of you are the most attracted to each other and getting it on like bunnies!! None of this is your fault, he’s projecting a bunch of his own crap onto you. But it won’t get easier with marriage and kids, those things really challenge the bedroom. You deserve a lot better, and as a parting shot you could mention that maybe his dick is just too small for average vaginas and good luck with that!!
Not a boundary: You cannot visit your parents
Boundary: If you visit your parents I will need to reevaluate this relationship
I’m not saying that’s a great boundary, by the way, but hopefully this helps you moving forward. And yes he is being controlling.
A huge Nope for me. This is supposed to be the time when both of you are the most attracted to each other and getting it on like bunnies!! None of this is your fault, he’s projecting a bunch of his own crap onto you. But it won’t get easier with marriage and kids, those things really challenge the bedroom. You deserve a lot better, and as a parting shot you could mention that maybe his dick is just too small for average vaginas and good luck with that!!