Your problem isn't with communicating with her, or with her hearing you and responding. Your problem is letting go of the past. I suggest a short term of counselling for you.
Okay a number of things can be happening. Medication can prevent people from having orgasms. If he's taking any meds look for side affects. Secondly, if he is stressed or anxious about being intimate then he might just have “stage fright”. I know that if I am not feeling it, regardless of the partner, I will just go limp. Not fun for my partner, but being understanding that he is probably not happy about this as well is a good start. Encourage him to communicate if its a known issue, if not encourage him to see his PCP. I hope this gets better.
You find one. Like make an advertisement. Otherwise you are on the hook for your side of the rental agreement.
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Your problem isn't with communicating with her, or with her hearing you and responding. Your problem is letting go of the past. I suggest a short term of counselling for you.
Okay a number of things can be happening. Medication can prevent people from having orgasms. If he's taking any meds look for side affects. Secondly, if he is stressed or anxious about being intimate then he might just have “stage fright”. I know that if I am not feeling it, regardless of the partner, I will just go limp. Not fun for my partner, but being understanding that he is probably not happy about this as well is a good start. Encourage him to communicate if its a known issue, if not encourage him to see his PCP. I hope this gets better.
Lmfao at Jesus wept
Sounds like you haven't grown at all. You are still incredibly selfish.
Wait! People lie on the internet?
I treat it all like a soap opera and get little snippets of drama during the day.
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