Grey rock method is perfect for narcs. This very likely won't be his last attempt at contact so stay strong. Remember that you deserve better. You really do! Focus on healing. Be comfortable with being alone. I promise you it's gets easier. Lean on friends and family for support.
It's time to leave OP to his own decisions here people , he just isn't going to listen, wait for follow up posts down the road when he's married to her and she ends up sleeping with other people who bring her out for dinner and buy her stuff the odd time
Take it down, and set it up in your bedroom to scare him later tonight
Just block and be prepared to get the police involved/a restraining order.
He literally said that she was drunk at the party. She wasn’t a little drunk. So he masturbated thinking about a drunk women essentially
Grey rock method is perfect for narcs. This very likely won't be his last attempt at contact so stay strong. Remember that you deserve better. You really do! Focus on healing. Be comfortable with being alone. I promise you it's gets easier. Lean on friends and family for support.
This here OP- the problem is not that you have to fix or convince her of something. The problem is you.
It's time to leave OP to his own decisions here people , he just isn't going to listen, wait for follow up posts down the road when he's married to her and she ends up sleeping with other people who bring her out for dinner and buy her stuff the odd time
Oh I assumed they lived in the US. As long it's only a couple countries over that's different.