Lol. Sounds like your x-woman is a good woman. You disrespected her father and you think you are getting her back!? Good luck my guy. Also that’s racist as fuck.
The good things do not outweigh this level of betrayal. You need to protect yourself and move on from this relationship. He betrayed you in the worst way that a partner can do to another and is now gaslighting you about it when you’ve decided to forgive him?
If you value yourself and your sanity, you give this person a life time of space to sit with the repercussions of their actions. If you can’t value yourself to see that, then you’re doomed for future pain. Do not get back together.
Keeps ups mean keeping up the ball by kicking it. You can use your feet, knees or heads. He said girls mostly used their knees from observation. Most girls I know also use their knees as it’s easier to do then feet, probably because most girls are not taught to the technical standard as guys with football during school.
Not sexist and not dumb on OP, her body shami bf if awful and disgusting though
I just blocked him on Instagram. I don’t know why he won’t just leave me alone. I think it’s obvious to everyone that read my post he doesn’t really care. So why not let me be?
Just because someone doesn't wanna have a traditional relationship doesn't mean they're wasting time. Some people are FWB for decades and couldn't be any happier about it, for example.
You guys really need to ditch this notion that only christian models for relationships are valid. Humans are complex and can define their relationships in a million different ways.
Wow you have major trust issues. So she slept with another dude, you had known each other a WEEK calm down, you then broke up, she is not your property, what she does when she is SINGLE is her business. Get therapy bloody hell.
I don’t get it. But then I don’t get a lot of things today. What is the difference in a random girl who is nude in a porn video or a random girl who is dressed in an Instagram post? Men are visual, and visual excites them. It’s just the way we are women tend to be more imaginative and verbal… thus to Romance a guy would never touch. What do you look out for July is when you get off ? Really kind of a personal thing long as somebody the law or being completely gross… It shouldn’t matter if he says he likes the way you look, then he likes the way you look.
Arguments doesn't equal a hill to die on, we're not going to break up over this.
And I know that their trust isnt completely shattered due to Santa not being real, but some part of their trust is broken. I also don't see the pros to lying to a kid because it's tradition or it's fun.
I simply stated I didn't want to do it and he got upset. I'm not saying they can't believe, but I'm not going to be the one to tell them about it or promote it.
And it can be more than just a year, some kids still believe in Santa over 10+ years. I just don't see any good at all by doing it. If he does or if anyone does, then good for them, yall can do whatever. I don't have to do it tho. I don't see any benefits to it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Sometimes, two people who love each other just aren't great as a couple. And it sounds like you two aren't really compatible any more, that's ok, people can grow and change, and at your ages that growth and change can often happen pretty quickly.
You two may have been great at first, but you're not any more. You don't have anything in common, and don't really have patience for the things each other likes.
Just break up, neither of you has to have done something horrible to the other, you can just go “You know what, I'm not really happy, you're not really happy… this just isn't working. Lets break up and find people we'll be happy with”.
Thank you for this. Knowing this now, I won't put too much pressure on myself to lose weight but I do want to work on those kegels, not for him, but for me too.
Hey OP I know you haven't asked but I just want to let you know that Endometriosis doesn't show on ultrasounds so that may still be the issue. Sometimes an ultrasound can show signs of endo but never anything definite. If the pain and spotting continue I would push for surgery to check for endo as that is the only way it can be diagnosed for certain.
He is a man-child that needs to struggle on his own for a while.
Lol. Sounds like your x-woman is a good woman. You disrespected her father and you think you are getting her back!? Good luck my guy. Also that’s racist as fuck.
The good things do not outweigh this level of betrayal. You need to protect yourself and move on from this relationship. He betrayed you in the worst way that a partner can do to another and is now gaslighting you about it when you’ve decided to forgive him?
If you value yourself and your sanity, you give this person a life time of space to sit with the repercussions of their actions. If you can’t value yourself to see that, then you’re doomed for future pain. Do not get back together.
Keeps ups mean keeping up the ball by kicking it. You can use your feet, knees or heads. He said girls mostly used their knees from observation. Most girls I know also use their knees as it’s easier to do then feet, probably because most girls are not taught to the technical standard as guys with football during school.
Not sexist and not dumb on OP, her body shami bf if awful and disgusting though
I just blocked him on Instagram. I don’t know why he won’t just leave me alone. I think it’s obvious to everyone that read my post he doesn’t really care. So why not let me be?
Just because someone doesn't wanna have a traditional relationship doesn't mean they're wasting time. Some people are FWB for decades and couldn't be any happier about it, for example.
You guys really need to ditch this notion that only christian models for relationships are valid. Humans are complex and can define their relationships in a million different ways.
Wow you have major trust issues. So she slept with another dude, you had known each other a WEEK calm down, you then broke up, she is not your property, what she does when she is SINGLE is her business. Get therapy bloody hell.
Keep your therapist, dump your insecure and immature girlfriend.
What does he suggest as a strategy? He needs to take the lead with fixing his behaviour. It can’t be we(you) suggesting it.
Why does he shut down? Why is he doing the behaviour he does? What’s his explanation?
I don’t get it. But then I don’t get a lot of things today. What is the difference in a random girl who is nude in a porn video or a random girl who is dressed in an Instagram post? Men are visual, and visual excites them. It’s just the way we are women tend to be more imaginative and verbal… thus to Romance a guy would never touch. What do you look out for July is when you get off ? Really kind of a personal thing long as somebody the law or being completely gross… It shouldn’t matter if he says he likes the way you look, then he likes the way you look.
Arguments doesn't equal a hill to die on, we're not going to break up over this.
And I know that their trust isnt completely shattered due to Santa not being real, but some part of their trust is broken. I also don't see the pros to lying to a kid because it's tradition or it's fun.
I simply stated I didn't want to do it and he got upset. I'm not saying they can't believe, but I'm not going to be the one to tell them about it or promote it.
And it can be more than just a year, some kids still believe in Santa over 10+ years. I just don't see any good at all by doing it. If he does or if anyone does, then good for them, yall can do whatever. I don't have to do it tho. I don't see any benefits to it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
If you break up with her, please don’t get into any more relationships. Then you won’t have to worry about taking care of anyone else.
Go for walks on your own from now on – put on an audiobook, they are probably more interesting than him, anyway. 😉 Or get a dog – dogs are the best!
If he asks why you didn't take him on the walk, say “oh, I thought you preferred solitary walks, anyway. I don't want to slow you down.”
Sometimes, two people who love each other just aren't great as a couple. And it sounds like you two aren't really compatible any more, that's ok, people can grow and change, and at your ages that growth and change can often happen pretty quickly.
You two may have been great at first, but you're not any more. You don't have anything in common, and don't really have patience for the things each other likes.
Just break up, neither of you has to have done something horrible to the other, you can just go “You know what, I'm not really happy, you're not really happy… this just isn't working. Lets break up and find people we'll be happy with”.
Thank you for this. Knowing this now, I won't put too much pressure on myself to lose weight but I do want to work on those kegels, not for him, but for me too.
Then why does he need you?
Hey OP I know you haven't asked but I just want to let you know that Endometriosis doesn't show on ultrasounds so that may still be the issue. Sometimes an ultrasound can show signs of endo but never anything definite. If the pain and spotting continue I would push for surgery to check for endo as that is the only way it can be diagnosed for certain.