I’m not sure how getting married solves anything as you have said.
He bought the condo before marriage so I would think it would be considered a pre-marital asset. He still isn’t obligated to put your name on the deed once you get married. Soooo…..
I don’t see an issue with “renting” from him for a limited time. But your comment about him breaking up with you if you have your own house is alarming and I would look at this as a huge red flag. He wants to use you to pay his mortgage while preventing you from having your own home. That’s not a sign of someone who cares about you.
What kind of horrible person treats their child badly due to skin color ? Why are you with this man ? This person who not only lacks understanding of science but lacks basic decency of how to behave with their partner and child. Something tells me that when your kid grows up and if you have a another kid of lighter skin tone, your husband and his family will always favor the one with light skin tone. Even if you do paternity test there will be issues.
My man, move on from her. What she said is pretty alarming and very manipulative. Who the fuck threatens someone with being labelled a rapist. If someone overheard part of your conversation and got the wrong idea you'd be ruined.
Yep. Major psychosomatic vibes. Especially with how she refuses to do anything. She's definitely ill, but it's mental, not physical. I would be curious to know if she's ever been in therapy or seen any sort of mental health professional, or if the doctors have ever recommended that.
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I’m not sure how getting married solves anything as you have said.
He bought the condo before marriage so I would think it would be considered a pre-marital asset. He still isn’t obligated to put your name on the deed once you get married. Soooo…..
I don’t see an issue with “renting” from him for a limited time. But your comment about him breaking up with you if you have your own house is alarming and I would look at this as a huge red flag. He wants to use you to pay his mortgage while preventing you from having your own home. That’s not a sign of someone who cares about you.
I’m not completely sure, I feel like I might be at first but not sure what would happen if I continued it.
What kind of horrible person treats their child badly due to skin color ? Why are you with this man ? This person who not only lacks understanding of science but lacks basic decency of how to behave with their partner and child. Something tells me that when your kid grows up and if you have a another kid of lighter skin tone, your husband and his family will always favor the one with light skin tone. Even if you do paternity test there will be issues.
My man, move on from her. What she said is pretty alarming and very manipulative. Who the fuck threatens someone with being labelled a rapist. If someone overheard part of your conversation and got the wrong idea you'd be ruined.
I'm not sure if I should confront her about what I found, or if I should just end things now
The 3rd and best option is not to date people if you have this many insecurity issues. FAFO.
Beyond toxic she’s abusive.
By being honest and telling her that her breath fucking stinks
I’ll bet every girlfriend has broken up over this
Yep. Major psychosomatic vibes. Especially with how she refuses to do anything. She's definitely ill, but it's mental, not physical. I would be curious to know if she's ever been in therapy or seen any sort of mental health professional, or if the doctors have ever recommended that.